How long did you give couples counseling before giving up?

Our relationship has been pretty bad for awhile. Pornography, yelling, lies, irresponsible financial decisions, etc. Then last march i got pregnant. My pregnancy was pretty awful. I constantly found him looking at pornography and signing up for dating sites. I even thought about an abortion because I doubted things would get better or that I would want to stay with him forever. I did go through with my pregnancy ( I couldn't make myself kill my baby, not even to get away). He promised to quit (which he's done many times- even though I tell him I'll leave if he does it again.) Things were ok for a few weeks. Then I found out that he'd been looking at porn again 2 weeks after having my baby. He tried to deny it but the computer doesn't lie. Again he promised to change and again the above list continues. I found that he had forwarded porn from his phone to his e-mail on Jan. 20th and decided to leave. I've asked for counseling mant timesand he always promises but then it never happens.How long did you give couples counseling before giving up?
Real men don't view porn. Affairs can be of the mind, not just physical. If your man is cheating on you in every way, he's not worth your time. I have 100% trust in my husband, and he does NOT look at porn.How long did you give couples counseling before giving up?
if he continues on your best bet is to leave . dont waste your time on someone who doesnt appreciate you. life is too short to put up with b.s. move on
Men watch porn..


All men..


Get over it..


The rest is not very good...


Dating sites are not acceptable...


Counseling is useless...
You have to outweigh the bad and the good. I can understand guys watch porn but not that much. It can ruin relationships and not only that but why is he looking on dating sites? That right there he is being disrespectful to you. If you think you will have problems in the future you should start thinking about leaving him. Your child is young and you don't want 5 years to go by and your child knowing what is happening. If you truly love him and want it to work out, stick it out for awhile and let him know you are serious about leaving him. If he doesn't get any better, leave. It isn't worth the stress and you deserve someone who wants you to be happy. Think of what is best for you and your child. Good luck!