Friday, November 25, 2011

Are you ok with couples kissing in car in india?Is it acceptable?Is it ok in indian culture?

I think you worry a tad too much about what others would think, and what is ';socially acceptable';.





The only questions you need to ask is, a) whether you like doing it, and b) Is your partner okay with it?





If you are not causing harm to anyone, then it is no one else's business. Period. You seem to be pretty confused/worried about conforming with ';Indian culture';. what exactly is culture anyways? Take the so-called western culture for example. just 6 centuries back or so, ritual marriage did not even exist there. A man took a woman as a partner, and that was all there was to marriage. It was only later that marriage required priests and registration. And today, they are calling not having a church witnessed-marriage to be a ';sin';.





In ancient India, we had people doing ';Gandharva vivah'; which was essentially just a one-night stand. Like the step-mother of Bhishma slept with Parashara Rishi, gave birth to Ved Vyasa and then married a King(Bhishma's father). Going by today's laws and social values, the second marriage was illegal and therefore all the pandavas were basically illegitimate children?





It was in Indian culture to encourage/force the widows to commit suicide. Government made this illegal. I assume that in your zeal to ';obey'; social boundaries, you will inform your gf that you support the sati-pratha and will expect her to self-immolate in case something happens to you tomorrow?





Our so-called Indian culture always had kings. So democracy itself is against Indian culture, no? what do you plan to do about that? Start a rebellion?





Only thing worse than the uneducated ignorant Idiots trying to tell us what ';Indian culture'; is, are the educated idiots trying to eagerly obey their dictates.





What exactly is this ';pub'; culture and why are you so defensive about that? There is nothing wrong with wine in moderation. Nor is there any scientific research that says that wine is harmful only to women but beneficial to men. If these talibanistic eunuchs that feel threatened by female equality, really thought there was something bad about wine, they would simply go and close down the government licensed wine shops, which they do not dare to.





so if our culture has always been dynamic and ever-changing, why are you so guilty about not sticking to what is old-fashioned?





Use your common sense. The reason people do not have sex in public is because they don't want small kids to start copying the same and getting pregnant at age of 14-15. But even small children kiss all the time. I mean these objecting hypocrites are the same ones ones who would go and buy tickets in their teen age, to see others do the same on a theater screen?





What is so bad about a kiss? When the social boundary has changed, how could you be crossing it?


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Addition : Turn spike surfer... you have a tendency to hear only what you want. You are pretty selective in listening. You have already made up your mind what others should or should not do, and now seem to be asking questions again and again to convince *others*, not yourself.





I mean any idiots could see that before muslim and british invaders, we had been a tolerant and permissive society. But you have no answer to that arguement. For folks like you s-ex is a SIN. If women start dressing up in ancient Indian tradition, or doing gandharva vivahas, even that would somehow magically lead this country into ';destruction';!





Wake up !!! Newsflash! The people who brought all these ooh-la-la taboos to our country are the ones having multiple wives and thus having daily orgies, and making even the usage of contraception a taboo. India did not have a population problem before these taboos were imported. If you really feel that the country is going to destruction because of some kissing in public or going to pubs or girls showing some skin, do us a favour. Do NOT marry. Do NOT have kids. And please break up with your gf. Affairs and Sex is against your ';culture';, no? Hypocrite! For one thing, it will help reduce the population, and ensure that gene-pool is at least improved for lack of your contribution.





I mean, intolerant ';culture jihadists'; idiots such as you shouldn't be procreating.





And read about our ancient history before deciding what our ';culture'; is or should-be.Are you ok with couples kissing in car in india?Is it acceptable?Is it ok in indian culture?
Couples kissing as per indian culture should be in privacy.If it is in car or not is not a question. Even in car if they are alone and in a remote place let they have it.And if they are older people say in their eighties


then the kiss may be showing an affection only and it may not be tempting others SO in that case also it is acceptable.Are you ok with couples kissing in car in india?Is it acceptable?Is it ok in indian culture?
I do not understand why somebody should be worried if some two people kiss in their car, home, toilet or in a bar should evoke so much protest. India is a country which has literature which tells how to kiss, where to kiss and methods of kissing even the genitals of men and women.





People who attack this citing culture do not have any culture for them selves. India is not a sigle country and there is nothing common between a north Indian and South Indian and East Indian to west Indians of India. North Indians make fun of south Indians. Same with east or west Indians ( bengal, maharashtra etc).





Cultural, dress, food, language, colour etc are different for all the Indians. Kashmiris and North east are also different.





Now tell me what is common with us other than religion?
Whatever it be...acc. to indian culture...it must be done privately.....tats it....be it nything....if ther is no one around...then probably its ok to kiss in a car.....but here all these r considered private....nywyz ultimately its ur wish...whether to keep up the culture or not....so think and take ur decision :)
is not ok as indian culture...but in our constitution nothing hv any rule to protect our culture..becoz our leader totally bulshit they dont care abt rule and regulation@abt country then evry1hv think hw v can protect culture@country
drinking beer is bad


going to pub is wrong


kissing.............forget it


(says the New culture police in India....lol)
I gave a big kiss to my SX4. Its a wonderful car!
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