I am a Police Officer and while I am at work, working in my cities worst niegborhood, my wife spent the night at a co-worker and his wife's house. I am upset, and told her that I did not feel comportable with this. Is this normal for young married couples.My wife wants to spend the night at another couples house, is this normal or should I be worried?
First of all, thank you for working to make our communities safer and better places. I appreciate it, no matter where you are.
No, it's not normal but you need to calmly talk to her about it rather than confront her. Does she feel loney when you're working? Scared for you / your safety and need comfort from friends? Was it a case of one - too - many / too tired and couldn't drive home?
Don't force her to put up a wall over it, just talk to her and figure it out. If it turns out that it's a security blanket for her because you are in harms way, then you may need to cut her some slack. If your dept. offers spousal counseling for stress, offer to get her some.
Good luckMy wife wants to spend the night at another couples house, is this normal or should I be worried?
No it is not a normal thing.
If there is any strong convincing reason behind this then it is ok, but you have not mentioned any.
Take a closer look, and oh man you are a Cop ! you know all about criminal minds. You can find any thing fishy around you.
The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure
and the intelligent full of doubt.
It depends...maybe she doesn't feel safe being home alone at night. Ask her!!
Either she is just frightened to be alone or she is having a m茅nage 脿 trois .... Ooh la la !
once would be ok i guess.But like 4 nights a month is not.Any good reasons?
Do you trust her that she is doing just that, spending the night? If so then don't be mad. Trust her! That is what marriage is about. To no end. I know I don't like sleeping alone in a house worrying. You need to open up to her, in a non accusing tone, as her husband who loves her and tell her what you feel and then listen to her and what she says. Good Luck.
Nothing wrong in it - if you are not suspicious and trust in her tht she can protect herself.
well its hard to say.... i mean if she was forced to stay cause of circumstances then its normal.. but casually sounds odd {}
It's not normal if she is constantly doing so.. but if it only happened once because she doesn't like being alone or sleeping in an empty house or because it was too late for her to leave, then I can understand why she did it.
I would only be worried that something might be going on if this is a persistent issue.
doesnt sound normal to me. i wouldnt allow it. its the making of a disaster. somethings not right.
What happened to innocent till prooven guilty?? I dont think there is anything to worry about. She might have lost track of time, or maybe she didnt want to be alone. The only way you will know is asking. But dont interrigate her. remember this guys wife was there too. dont accuse her of anything. Maybe ask the guy too. Let him know you are not comfortable with it and rather it not happen again. Goodluck to you.
Why are you upset? You think she cheated or something?
You need the why question...
Just ask her why she did it. Maybe she drank wine and did not want to drive or felt too sleepy to drive or too foggy to drive home. Was there a storm? Were the women quilting or scrapbooking, etc?
Don't get angry - just trust, but verify.
You can mention it to the guy's wife. Something, like ';oh, my wife's your overnight visitor now...'; Watch for the reaction. The only thing I see weird is that the co-worker is male? But, maybe she is good friend's with his wife??? Quietly check it out before accusing her of anything.
Joy to you!
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Do you a good song for gay/bi guy couples?
PLEZZZZ HELP IM DIEING 2 HAVE A LOVE SONG 4 US!!!!!!!Do you a good song for gay/bi guy couples?
I love the song ONE by U2 I make sure it is the song in every one of my gay relationships because it highlights the differences between people and not their homogenous qualities.
my favorite verse:
we are one but were not the same, we get to carry each other.
Here's a link to the youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFWPeVfWB鈥?/a>
You also may want to try heaven by DJ Sammy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuBmiu68E鈥?/a>
ooooo and I LOVE this one too, Whitney Houston ';My Love Is Your Love'; (techno remix)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yVgkIjPi4鈥?/a>Do you a good song for gay/bi guy couples?
';Annie's Song'; by John Denver . . . Google it.
You fill up my senses, like a night in the forest,
Like the mountains in spring time,
Like a walk in the rain,
Like a storm on the desert,
Like a sleepy blue ocean.
Come let me love you, come fill me again.
Come let me hold you.
Let me give my love to you.
Let me drown in your laughter,
Let me lie in your arms.
Let me lay down beside you.
Let me always be with you.
Come let me love you.
Come fill me again.
lol everyone else said anything i could think of..
theres if i were gay by stephen lynch, but its sung by a supposedly straight guy.. then again it could be a gay/bi guy in denial or a closeted guy and his gay/bi frd
%26lt;3
Tom Robinson-Glad To Be Gay
Anything by The Pansy Division
';Your Song'; by Elton John.
all I need
t.a.t.u. - all the things she said
I love the song ONE by U2 I make sure it is the song in every one of my gay relationships because it highlights the differences between people and not their homogenous qualities.
my favorite verse:
we are one but were not the same, we get to carry each other.
Here's a link to the youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFWPeVfWB鈥?/a>
You also may want to try heaven by DJ Sammy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuBmiu68E鈥?/a>
ooooo and I LOVE this one too, Whitney Houston ';My Love Is Your Love'; (techno remix)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yVgkIjPi4鈥?/a>Do you a good song for gay/bi guy couples?
';Annie's Song'; by John Denver . . . Google it.
You fill up my senses, like a night in the forest,
Like the mountains in spring time,
Like a walk in the rain,
Like a storm on the desert,
Like a sleepy blue ocean.
Come let me love you, come fill me again.
Come let me hold you.
Let me give my love to you.
Let me drown in your laughter,
Let me lie in your arms.
Let me lay down beside you.
Let me always be with you.
Come let me love you.
Come fill me again.
lol everyone else said anything i could think of..
theres if i were gay by stephen lynch, but its sung by a supposedly straight guy.. then again it could be a gay/bi guy in denial or a closeted guy and his gay/bi frd
%26lt;3
Tom Robinson-Glad To Be Gay
Anything by The Pansy Division
';Your Song'; by Elton John.
all I need
t.a.t.u. - all the things she said
If you ammend the constution to excludes Same Sex Couples?
Then you will have to change the constitution where it says that all me are created equal to all Straight men are created equal.If you ammend the constution to excludes Same Sex Couples?
Yeah, okay, but if we are going to argue that, I would lean toward saying that it would be the only amendment restricting freedom, not granting it. The only amendment to restrict freedom is number 18, which any person who has read the Bill of Rights knows was repealed shortly thereafter. The Constitution is not made to tell us what we can't do, only what we can.If you ammend the constution to excludes Same Sex Couples?
';all me are created equal'; is not in the Constitution. It is in the Declaration of Independence.
Well actually... the phrase ';We hold these truths to be self evident that all men are created equal'; is in the Declaration of Independence, not the Constitution.
huh??
Of course they didn't think of that one! They're ignorant bastards.
Whats the difference in gay marriages and business deals? Create a contract between yourselves, but please don't tell my children what you do. There is not a gay animal on the planet except some of you folks. So don't confuse the world!!!!
You got it. That's why the Senate rejected the amendment.
Boy you can tell that you have never read the Constitution. The constitution does not say that all Men are created equal.
Abraham Lincoln used that par-phrase in the Gettysburg Address '; Dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal'; That was his (Lincoln) ideology.
I agree
No you wouldn't. A gay man would have equal rights to marry a women as a straight man would.
Yeah, okay, but if we are going to argue that, I would lean toward saying that it would be the only amendment restricting freedom, not granting it. The only amendment to restrict freedom is number 18, which any person who has read the Bill of Rights knows was repealed shortly thereafter. The Constitution is not made to tell us what we can't do, only what we can.If you ammend the constution to excludes Same Sex Couples?
';all me are created equal'; is not in the Constitution. It is in the Declaration of Independence.
Well actually... the phrase ';We hold these truths to be self evident that all men are created equal'; is in the Declaration of Independence, not the Constitution.
huh??
Of course they didn't think of that one! They're ignorant bastards.
Whats the difference in gay marriages and business deals? Create a contract between yourselves, but please don't tell my children what you do. There is not a gay animal on the planet except some of you folks. So don't confuse the world!!!!
You got it. That's why the Senate rejected the amendment.
Boy you can tell that you have never read the Constitution. The constitution does not say that all Men are created equal.
Abraham Lincoln used that par-phrase in the Gettysburg Address '; Dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal'; That was his (Lincoln) ideology.
I agree
No you wouldn't. A gay man would have equal rights to marry a women as a straight man would.
Where do couples keep their money in the house hold?
is their any secret place people keep their money so no one will find it?where do u keep your money at?Where do couples keep their money in the house hold?
when I was married to my ex-husband I ';hid'; money in the checking account. I was the one who balanced the check book and paid the bills (and made the money) so when he was whining about wanting something for HIS pleasure I would show him the balance in the checkbook. What he didn't know was the little index card I kept hidden in the check book with small amounts of $$ I had secreted away. When I finally got rid of his lazy, drunk butt I had a couple of thousand $$ to help me and our son get our lives going.Where do couples keep their money in the house hold?
dirty laundry... it smells too pungent for a thief to search
Duh!!! in a bank
Yes there is a secret place or places where no
one will find it. We hid 500dlrs once and we never
remembered where we hid it until about 6months
later, so now we use a back up plan. We use
codes to remind us where we hid it.
in the cats litter box
Every penny should be with the wife in her hiding spot, the place she stashes all the extra would be a place that is obvious by unattainable. I have nothing to hide, unfortunately.
Why do you want to know? Do you rob houses at night and need to know where to look?
Put it in a maxipad on the bottom of the package. Unused of course.
I'm not married. I never hid money from my wife, we had a joint marriage. Sort of lol Now I get all the moneys and have no one to hide it from Good Luck
cookie jar
Everyone is different when it comes to that, but I normally find change in drawers. Otherswise, it's either in my parent's wallets or the bank, why the heck do you want to know anyways?
None of your business...
you nosy girl !!!
A man in our church kept his in a cool-whip bowl in the freezer and his wife cleaned out the freezer and threw away several thousand dollars.
I don't keep any money at home.
when I was married to my ex-husband I ';hid'; money in the checking account. I was the one who balanced the check book and paid the bills (and made the money) so when he was whining about wanting something for HIS pleasure I would show him the balance in the checkbook. What he didn't know was the little index card I kept hidden in the check book with small amounts of $$ I had secreted away. When I finally got rid of his lazy, drunk butt I had a couple of thousand $$ to help me and our son get our lives going.Where do couples keep their money in the house hold?
dirty laundry... it smells too pungent for a thief to search
Duh!!! in a bank
Yes there is a secret place or places where no
one will find it. We hid 500dlrs once and we never
remembered where we hid it until about 6months
later, so now we use a back up plan. We use
codes to remind us where we hid it.
in the cats litter box
Every penny should be with the wife in her hiding spot, the place she stashes all the extra would be a place that is obvious by unattainable. I have nothing to hide, unfortunately.
Why do you want to know? Do you rob houses at night and need to know where to look?
Put it in a maxipad on the bottom of the package. Unused of course.
I'm not married. I never hid money from my wife, we had a joint marriage. Sort of lol Now I get all the moneys and have no one to hide it from Good Luck
cookie jar
Everyone is different when it comes to that, but I normally find change in drawers. Otherswise, it's either in my parent's wallets or the bank, why the heck do you want to know anyways?
None of your business...
you nosy girl !!!
A man in our church kept his in a cool-whip bowl in the freezer and his wife cleaned out the freezer and threw away several thousand dollars.
I don't keep any money at home.
Do gay couples want their adopted kids to be gay?
no they want them to be slutty hoesDo gay couples want their adopted kids to be gay?
no one ever answers you. Why is this?make up
no one ever answers you. Why is this?
My wife wants to spend the night at another couples house, is this normal or should I be worried?
I am a Police Officer and while I am at work, working in my cities worst niegborhood, my wife spent the night at a co-worker and his wife's house. I am upset, and told her that I did not feel comportable with this. Is this normal for young married couples.My wife wants to spend the night at another couples house, is this normal or should I be worried?
First of all, thank you for working to make our communities safer and better places. I appreciate it, no matter where you are.
No, it's not normal but you need to calmly talk to her about it rather than confront her. Does she feel loney when you're working? Scared for you / your safety and need comfort from friends? Was it a case of one - too - many / too tired and couldn't drive home?
Don't force her to put up a wall over it, just talk to her and figure it out. If it turns out that it's a security blanket for her because you are in harms way, then you may need to cut her some slack. If your dept. offers spousal counseling for stress, offer to get her some.
Good luckMy wife wants to spend the night at another couples house, is this normal or should I be worried?
No it is not a normal thing.
If there is any strong convincing reason behind this then it is ok, but you have not mentioned any.
Take a closer look, and oh man you are a Cop ! you know all about criminal minds. You can find any thing fishy around you.
The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure
and the intelligent full of doubt.
It depends...maybe she doesn't feel safe being home alone at night. Ask her!!
Either she is just frightened to be alone or she is having a m茅nage 脿 trois .... Ooh la la !
once would be ok i guess.But like 4 nights a month is not.Any good reasons?
Do you trust her that she is doing just that, spending the night? If so then don't be mad. Trust her! That is what marriage is about. To no end. I know I don't like sleeping alone in a house worrying. You need to open up to her, in a non accusing tone, as her husband who loves her and tell her what you feel and then listen to her and what she says. Good Luck.
Nothing wrong in it - if you are not suspicious and trust in her tht she can protect herself.
well its hard to say.... i mean if she was forced to stay cause of circumstances then its normal.. but casually sounds odd {}
It's not normal if she is constantly doing so.. but if it only happened once because she doesn't like being alone or sleeping in an empty house or because it was too late for her to leave, then I can understand why she did it.
I would only be worried that something might be going on if this is a persistent issue.
doesnt sound normal to me. i wouldnt allow it. its the making of a disaster. somethings not right.
What happened to innocent till prooven guilty?? I dont think there is anything to worry about. She might have lost track of time, or maybe she didnt want to be alone. The only way you will know is asking. But dont interrigate her. remember this guys wife was there too. dont accuse her of anything. Maybe ask the guy too. Let him know you are not comfortable with it and rather it not happen again. Goodluck to you.
Why are you upset? You think she cheated or something?
You need the why question...
Just ask her why she did it. Maybe she drank wine and did not want to drive or felt too sleepy to drive or too foggy to drive home. Was there a storm? Were the women quilting or scrapbooking, etc?
Don't get angry - just trust, but verify.
You can mention it to the guy's wife. Something, like ';oh, my wife's your overnight visitor now...'; Watch for the reaction. The only thing I see weird is that the co-worker is male? But, maybe she is good friend's with his wife??? Quietly check it out before accusing her of anything.
Joy to you!
First of all, thank you for working to make our communities safer and better places. I appreciate it, no matter where you are.
No, it's not normal but you need to calmly talk to her about it rather than confront her. Does she feel loney when you're working? Scared for you / your safety and need comfort from friends? Was it a case of one - too - many / too tired and couldn't drive home?
Don't force her to put up a wall over it, just talk to her and figure it out. If it turns out that it's a security blanket for her because you are in harms way, then you may need to cut her some slack. If your dept. offers spousal counseling for stress, offer to get her some.
Good luckMy wife wants to spend the night at another couples house, is this normal or should I be worried?
No it is not a normal thing.
If there is any strong convincing reason behind this then it is ok, but you have not mentioned any.
Take a closer look, and oh man you are a Cop ! you know all about criminal minds. You can find any thing fishy around you.
The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure
and the intelligent full of doubt.
It depends...maybe she doesn't feel safe being home alone at night. Ask her!!
Either she is just frightened to be alone or she is having a m茅nage 脿 trois .... Ooh la la !
once would be ok i guess.But like 4 nights a month is not.Any good reasons?
Do you trust her that she is doing just that, spending the night? If so then don't be mad. Trust her! That is what marriage is about. To no end. I know I don't like sleeping alone in a house worrying. You need to open up to her, in a non accusing tone, as her husband who loves her and tell her what you feel and then listen to her and what she says. Good Luck.
Nothing wrong in it - if you are not suspicious and trust in her tht she can protect herself.
well its hard to say.... i mean if she was forced to stay cause of circumstances then its normal.. but casually sounds odd {}
It's not normal if she is constantly doing so.. but if it only happened once because she doesn't like being alone or sleeping in an empty house or because it was too late for her to leave, then I can understand why she did it.
I would only be worried that something might be going on if this is a persistent issue.
doesnt sound normal to me. i wouldnt allow it. its the making of a disaster. somethings not right.
What happened to innocent till prooven guilty?? I dont think there is anything to worry about. She might have lost track of time, or maybe she didnt want to be alone. The only way you will know is asking. But dont interrigate her. remember this guys wife was there too. dont accuse her of anything. Maybe ask the guy too. Let him know you are not comfortable with it and rather it not happen again. Goodluck to you.
Why are you upset? You think she cheated or something?
You need the why question...
Just ask her why she did it. Maybe she drank wine and did not want to drive or felt too sleepy to drive or too foggy to drive home. Was there a storm? Were the women quilting or scrapbooking, etc?
Don't get angry - just trust, but verify.
You can mention it to the guy's wife. Something, like ';oh, my wife's your overnight visitor now...'; Watch for the reaction. The only thing I see weird is that the co-worker is male? But, maybe she is good friend's with his wife??? Quietly check it out before accusing her of anything.
Joy to you!
Do you a good song for gay/bi guy couples?
PLEZZZZ HELP IM DIEING 2 HAVE A LOVE SONG 4 US!!!!!!!Do you a good song for gay/bi guy couples?
I love the song ONE by U2 I make sure it is the song in every one of my gay relationships because it highlights the differences between people and not their homogenous qualities.
my favorite verse:
we are one but were not the same, we get to carry each other.
Here's a link to the youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFWPeVfWB鈥?/a>
You also may want to try heaven by DJ Sammy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuBmiu68E鈥?/a>
ooooo and I LOVE this one too, Whitney Houston ';My Love Is Your Love'; (techno remix)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yVgkIjPi4鈥?/a>Do you a good song for gay/bi guy couples?
';Annie's Song'; by John Denver . . . Google it.
You fill up my senses, like a night in the forest,
Like the mountains in spring time,
Like a walk in the rain,
Like a storm on the desert,
Like a sleepy blue ocean.
Come let me love you, come fill me again.
Come let me hold you.
Let me give my love to you.
Let me drown in your laughter,
Let me lie in your arms.
Let me lay down beside you.
Let me always be with you.
Come let me love you.
Come fill me again.
lol everyone else said anything i could think of..
theres if i were gay by stephen lynch, but its sung by a supposedly straight guy.. then again it could be a gay/bi guy in denial or a closeted guy and his gay/bi frd
%26lt;3
Tom Robinson-Glad To Be Gay
Anything by The Pansy Division
';Your Song'; by Elton John.
all I need
t.a.t.u. - all the things she said
I love the song ONE by U2 I make sure it is the song in every one of my gay relationships because it highlights the differences between people and not their homogenous qualities.
my favorite verse:
we are one but were not the same, we get to carry each other.
Here's a link to the youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFWPeVfWB鈥?/a>
You also may want to try heaven by DJ Sammy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OuBmiu68E鈥?/a>
ooooo and I LOVE this one too, Whitney Houston ';My Love Is Your Love'; (techno remix)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yVgkIjPi4鈥?/a>Do you a good song for gay/bi guy couples?
';Annie's Song'; by John Denver . . . Google it.
You fill up my senses, like a night in the forest,
Like the mountains in spring time,
Like a walk in the rain,
Like a storm on the desert,
Like a sleepy blue ocean.
Come let me love you, come fill me again.
Come let me hold you.
Let me give my love to you.
Let me drown in your laughter,
Let me lie in your arms.
Let me lay down beside you.
Let me always be with you.
Come let me love you.
Come fill me again.
lol everyone else said anything i could think of..
theres if i were gay by stephen lynch, but its sung by a supposedly straight guy.. then again it could be a gay/bi guy in denial or a closeted guy and his gay/bi frd
%26lt;3
Tom Robinson-Glad To Be Gay
Anything by The Pansy Division
';Your Song'; by Elton John.
all I need
t.a.t.u. - all the things she said
If you ammend the constution to excludes Same Sex Couples?
Then you will have to change the constitution where it says that all me are created equal to all Straight men are created equal.If you ammend the constution to excludes Same Sex Couples?
Yeah, okay, but if we are going to argue that, I would lean toward saying that it would be the only amendment restricting freedom, not granting it. The only amendment to restrict freedom is number 18, which any person who has read the Bill of Rights knows was repealed shortly thereafter. The Constitution is not made to tell us what we can't do, only what we can.If you ammend the constution to excludes Same Sex Couples?
';all me are created equal'; is not in the Constitution. It is in the Declaration of Independence.
Well actually... the phrase ';We hold these truths to be self evident that all men are created equal'; is in the Declaration of Independence, not the Constitution.
huh??
Of course they didn't think of that one! They're ignorant bastards.
Whats the difference in gay marriages and business deals? Create a contract between yourselves, but please don't tell my children what you do. There is not a gay animal on the planet except some of you folks. So don't confuse the world!!!!
You got it. That's why the Senate rejected the amendment.
Boy you can tell that you have never read the Constitution. The constitution does not say that all Men are created equal.
Abraham Lincoln used that par-phrase in the Gettysburg Address '; Dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal'; That was his (Lincoln) ideology.
I agree
No you wouldn't. A gay man would have equal rights to marry a women as a straight man would.
Yeah, okay, but if we are going to argue that, I would lean toward saying that it would be the only amendment restricting freedom, not granting it. The only amendment to restrict freedom is number 18, which any person who has read the Bill of Rights knows was repealed shortly thereafter. The Constitution is not made to tell us what we can't do, only what we can.If you ammend the constution to excludes Same Sex Couples?
';all me are created equal'; is not in the Constitution. It is in the Declaration of Independence.
Well actually... the phrase ';We hold these truths to be self evident that all men are created equal'; is in the Declaration of Independence, not the Constitution.
huh??
Of course they didn't think of that one! They're ignorant bastards.
Whats the difference in gay marriages and business deals? Create a contract between yourselves, but please don't tell my children what you do. There is not a gay animal on the planet except some of you folks. So don't confuse the world!!!!
You got it. That's why the Senate rejected the amendment.
Boy you can tell that you have never read the Constitution. The constitution does not say that all Men are created equal.
Abraham Lincoln used that par-phrase in the Gettysburg Address '; Dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal'; That was his (Lincoln) ideology.
I agree
No you wouldn't. A gay man would have equal rights to marry a women as a straight man would.
Where do couples keep their money in the house hold?
is their any secret place people keep their money so no one will find it?where do u keep your money at?Where do couples keep their money in the house hold?
when I was married to my ex-husband I ';hid'; money in the checking account. I was the one who balanced the check book and paid the bills (and made the money) so when he was whining about wanting something for HIS pleasure I would show him the balance in the checkbook. What he didn't know was the little index card I kept hidden in the check book with small amounts of $$ I had secreted away. When I finally got rid of his lazy, drunk butt I had a couple of thousand $$ to help me and our son get our lives going.Where do couples keep their money in the house hold?
dirty laundry... it smells too pungent for a thief to search
Duh!!! in a bank
Yes there is a secret place or places where no
one will find it. We hid 500dlrs once and we never
remembered where we hid it until about 6months
later, so now we use a back up plan. We use
codes to remind us where we hid it.
in the cats litter box
Every penny should be with the wife in her hiding spot, the place she stashes all the extra would be a place that is obvious by unattainable. I have nothing to hide, unfortunately.
Why do you want to know? Do you rob houses at night and need to know where to look?
Put it in a maxipad on the bottom of the package. Unused of course.
I'm not married. I never hid money from my wife, we had a joint marriage. Sort of lol Now I get all the moneys and have no one to hide it from Good Luck
cookie jar
Everyone is different when it comes to that, but I normally find change in drawers. Otherswise, it's either in my parent's wallets or the bank, why the heck do you want to know anyways?
None of your business...
you nosy girl !!!
A man in our church kept his in a cool-whip bowl in the freezer and his wife cleaned out the freezer and threw away several thousand dollars.
I don't keep any money at home.
when I was married to my ex-husband I ';hid'; money in the checking account. I was the one who balanced the check book and paid the bills (and made the money) so when he was whining about wanting something for HIS pleasure I would show him the balance in the checkbook. What he didn't know was the little index card I kept hidden in the check book with small amounts of $$ I had secreted away. When I finally got rid of his lazy, drunk butt I had a couple of thousand $$ to help me and our son get our lives going.Where do couples keep their money in the house hold?
dirty laundry... it smells too pungent for a thief to search
Duh!!! in a bank
Yes there is a secret place or places where no
one will find it. We hid 500dlrs once and we never
remembered where we hid it until about 6months
later, so now we use a back up plan. We use
codes to remind us where we hid it.
in the cats litter box
Every penny should be with the wife in her hiding spot, the place she stashes all the extra would be a place that is obvious by unattainable. I have nothing to hide, unfortunately.
Why do you want to know? Do you rob houses at night and need to know where to look?
Put it in a maxipad on the bottom of the package. Unused of course.
I'm not married. I never hid money from my wife, we had a joint marriage. Sort of lol Now I get all the moneys and have no one to hide it from Good Luck
cookie jar
Everyone is different when it comes to that, but I normally find change in drawers. Otherswise, it's either in my parent's wallets or the bank, why the heck do you want to know anyways?
None of your business...
you nosy girl !!!
A man in our church kept his in a cool-whip bowl in the freezer and his wife cleaned out the freezer and threw away several thousand dollars.
I don't keep any money at home.
Do gay couples want their adopted kids to be gay?
no they want them to be slutty hoesDo gay couples want their adopted kids to be gay?
no one ever answers you. Why is this?
no one ever answers you. Why is this?
The UN report stated that the main reason that couples in Africa and China?
Wanted big familys or someone else to raise children for them was that the child could support them in old age. When they could no longer work. The same is true of Mexico when your to old to work there is no social security or other income that automatically clicks in when you reach 65, or get disabled.
they depend on children to support them so they keep having babies in the hopes that one will live to adult hood to take care of them in their old age. If they adopted a social program for older people and provided birth control they would control the size of their family. What do you think? do you think that this will work and save a lot of starving babies from suffering?The UN report stated that the main reason that couples in Africa and China?
For 20 years, the chinese have limited families to one child for town/city dwellers, and two children for farm workers. They don't have big families.
China is also self-sufficient in food; and they are by the way, the country our administration has borrowed from consistently for the last six years, making us a huge debtor to this communist country. If China were to require repayment of all our loans, America would be bankrupt! So I don't think they need any aid from us.make up
they depend on children to support them so they keep having babies in the hopes that one will live to adult hood to take care of them in their old age. If they adopted a social program for older people and provided birth control they would control the size of their family. What do you think? do you think that this will work and save a lot of starving babies from suffering?The UN report stated that the main reason that couples in Africa and China?
For 20 years, the chinese have limited families to one child for town/city dwellers, and two children for farm workers. They don't have big families.
China is also self-sufficient in food; and they are by the way, the country our administration has borrowed from consistently for the last six years, making us a huge debtor to this communist country. If China were to require repayment of all our loans, America would be bankrupt! So I don't think they need any aid from us.
What are the soft & hard corners (normal experiances facing couples with their families)of marriage life?
please discuss about the experiance of marriage life good ,sore, sweet etc,etc..What are the soft %26amp; hard corners (normal experiances facing couples with their families)of marriage life?
My personal experience
Soft corner: there's always another person to share your life with
Hard corner: there's always another person to share your life with
What are the soft %26amp; hard corners (normal experiances facing couples with their families)of marriage life?
SOft corners - when u will having sex for real
Hard corners - when start feeling that u love ur partner having sex with him/her but u fight sometimes badly. And in the worst case - after a littlle time if u feel that u don't want 2 touch him/her. And when u get bored of ur marrage life.
My personal experience
Soft corner: there's always another person to share your life with
Hard corner: there's always another person to share your life with
What are the soft %26amp; hard corners (normal experiances facing couples with their families)of marriage life?
SOft corners - when u will having sex for real
Hard corners - when start feeling that u love ur partner having sex with him/her but u fight sometimes badly. And in the worst case - after a littlle time if u feel that u don't want 2 touch him/her. And when u get bored of ur marrage life.
Why Has Our SSI Been Cut Under the Couples' Cap???
My husband and I have both been on disability since our teens, mine for legal blindness and his for clinical depression. Before we got married, I received a little less than $500 a month (while living with my mom who reports about $20,000 a year); and he received $400 in SSD and about $220 in SSI. He also gets about $60 monthly in a Food-Stamp program for SSI recipients called SkyCap.
We were married about four months ago and reported it within about a week. It took Social Security until this month to make any changes, and they did not notify us of them; they simply suprised us with drastically reduced checks this month.
According to what I've read, the cap is supposed to be $904 for last year and higher for 2007; but we are only getting $804 now, which is quite a bit less than our total monthly bills.
Having need of two hip replacements now, he is also physically disabled, and with our combined circumstances, neither of us can work.
What's going on? What can we do?Why Has Our SSI Been Cut Under the Couples' Cap???
call and talk to someone at legal aide. they won't charge you based on your income. good luck, i hope this helps.
We were married about four months ago and reported it within about a week. It took Social Security until this month to make any changes, and they did not notify us of them; they simply suprised us with drastically reduced checks this month.
According to what I've read, the cap is supposed to be $904 for last year and higher for 2007; but we are only getting $804 now, which is quite a bit less than our total monthly bills.
Having need of two hip replacements now, he is also physically disabled, and with our combined circumstances, neither of us can work.
What's going on? What can we do?Why Has Our SSI Been Cut Under the Couples' Cap???
call and talk to someone at legal aide. they won't charge you based on your income. good luck, i hope this helps.
Why Has Our SSI Been Cut Under the Couples' Cap???
My husband and I have both been on disability since our teens, mine for legal blindness and his for clinical depression. Before we got married, I received a little less than $500 a month (while living with my mom who reports about $20,000 a year); and he received $400 in SSD and about $220 in SSI. He also gets about $60 monthly in a Food-Stamp program for SSI recipients called SkyCap.
We were married about four months ago and reported it within about a week. It took Social Security until this month to make any changes, and they did not notify us of them; they simply suprised us with drastically reduced checks this month.
According to what I've read, the cap is supposed to be $904 for last year and higher for 2007; but we are only getting $804 now, which is quite a bit less than our total monthly bills.
Having need of two hip replacements now, he is also physically disabled, and with our combined circumstances, neither of us can work.
What's going on? What can we do?Why Has Our SSI Been Cut Under the Couples' Cap???
call and talk to someone at legal aide. they won't charge you based on your income. good luck, i hope this helps.
We were married about four months ago and reported it within about a week. It took Social Security until this month to make any changes, and they did not notify us of them; they simply suprised us with drastically reduced checks this month.
According to what I've read, the cap is supposed to be $904 for last year and higher for 2007; but we are only getting $804 now, which is quite a bit less than our total monthly bills.
Having need of two hip replacements now, he is also physically disabled, and with our combined circumstances, neither of us can work.
What's going on? What can we do?Why Has Our SSI Been Cut Under the Couples' Cap???
call and talk to someone at legal aide. they won't charge you based on your income. good luck, i hope this helps.
(I am doing research) How frequently do married couples with kids tend to have sex?
I am doing some research in which i am only interested in the answers... and therefore, i won't use any of your personal information
Personal or non-personal experience is fine.
How frequently do married couples with kids have sex?(I am doing research) How frequently do married couples with kids tend to have sex?
Married 11 years, have a 5 year old son. Have sex a few times a week (3-5).(I am doing research) How frequently do married couples with kids tend to have sex?
My husband and I haven't had sex since I got pregnant. Our daughter is 3 1/2 months old now and we still haven't had sex.
I know for me I'm tired and when I go to bed I want to sleep because I don't know when my daughter is going to wake up either. (He doesn't get up with her) Plus things have changed. If my needs aren't being met how can I meet someone elses needs. He works comes home and sits on his @ss. I take care of our daughter cook, clean, do laundry and take care of finances and everything else going on in our life. I'm tired so I get to the point where I don't care what he wants.
There are other couples who's sex life is greater than ever after kids and so is there marriage. If only all couples were like that.
I'm male, 45, been married 20 years, 2 kids 18 and 16.
I'd say once a month, and it's pathetic. This began when we had kids and never changed. As far as I'm concerned, having children ruined our life together, and I have not really enjoyed raising my own children because of this, as awful as that sounds.
I have been married 11 years, have 3 kids (nearly 4, 18 mths %26amp; 11 weeks) and we have sex whenever we can! We try for at least every other night, but would have sex every night if we could! It's just that with an 11week old sometimes it's a little busy. But I love sex as much as my hubby, so we like to get as much as we can :D
lol well im the only child and my parents dont think i hear things, but i do!
they have sex about once every month
well that's when i hear it
they think im sleep but im not or they wake me up from my sleep...so i turn the tv up really loud
EDIT: my parents have been married for 17 yrs..gonna be 18 in august
Every couple is different but in most cases, especially if you ask the husband, he would probably say they NEVER have sex once they have kids (LOL)!!
Well, my husband works alot..he's a truck driver,long haul, to support us here at home and we only have sex about six times a month.But,I think of him when I do it myself...does that count?lol
You mean married people with kids actually have sex? WTF? I think I may need to have a talk with the wifey because I don't think she knows this! !
together 5 1/2 yrs 2 kids. busy lives my husband gets lucky...................................鈥?br>
well, he hears crickets at night. i'm too tired.
once a month twice maybe
yes what b1 alto says. exactly the same right on.
married 6 years, 3 kids, 9, 7, 4...3-6 times / week, after kids go to sleep of course
EVERY NIGHT
Most married couples I know that have children only have sex once a week or less!
Married 10 years.
We are two to three times a week.
Whenever they can.....
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Personal or non-personal experience is fine.
How frequently do married couples with kids have sex?(I am doing research) How frequently do married couples with kids tend to have sex?
Married 11 years, have a 5 year old son. Have sex a few times a week (3-5).(I am doing research) How frequently do married couples with kids tend to have sex?
My husband and I haven't had sex since I got pregnant. Our daughter is 3 1/2 months old now and we still haven't had sex.
I know for me I'm tired and when I go to bed I want to sleep because I don't know when my daughter is going to wake up either. (He doesn't get up with her) Plus things have changed. If my needs aren't being met how can I meet someone elses needs. He works comes home and sits on his @ss. I take care of our daughter cook, clean, do laundry and take care of finances and everything else going on in our life. I'm tired so I get to the point where I don't care what he wants.
There are other couples who's sex life is greater than ever after kids and so is there marriage. If only all couples were like that.
I'm male, 45, been married 20 years, 2 kids 18 and 16.
I'd say once a month, and it's pathetic. This began when we had kids and never changed. As far as I'm concerned, having children ruined our life together, and I have not really enjoyed raising my own children because of this, as awful as that sounds.
I have been married 11 years, have 3 kids (nearly 4, 18 mths %26amp; 11 weeks) and we have sex whenever we can! We try for at least every other night, but would have sex every night if we could! It's just that with an 11week old sometimes it's a little busy. But I love sex as much as my hubby, so we like to get as much as we can :D
lol well im the only child and my parents dont think i hear things, but i do!
they have sex about once every month
well that's when i hear it
they think im sleep but im not or they wake me up from my sleep...so i turn the tv up really loud
EDIT: my parents have been married for 17 yrs..gonna be 18 in august
Every couple is different but in most cases, especially if you ask the husband, he would probably say they NEVER have sex once they have kids (LOL)!!
Well, my husband works alot..he's a truck driver,long haul, to support us here at home and we only have sex about six times a month.But,I think of him when I do it myself...does that count?lol
You mean married people with kids actually have sex? WTF? I think I may need to have a talk with the wifey because I don't think she knows this! !
together 5 1/2 yrs 2 kids. busy lives my husband gets lucky...................................鈥?br>
well, he hears crickets at night. i'm too tired.
once a month twice maybe
yes what b1 alto says. exactly the same right on.
married 6 years, 3 kids, 9, 7, 4...3-6 times / week, after kids go to sleep of course
EVERY NIGHT
Most married couples I know that have children only have sex once a week or less!
Married 10 years.
We are two to three times a week.
Whenever they can.....
A-LOT!
Married Couples in the Peace Corps?
I have always wanted to join the peace corps after college but now that I'm married I know that being away for 27 months is probably not an option. I know that the Peace Corps does take married couples as volunteers and places them together. Do you know anyone who has done this? Do you think its a good idea? We have been married 2 1/2 years, I'm 22 hes 21.Married Couples in the Peace Corps?
My daughter knows a married couple. I didn't. If the Peace Corps has always been your dream, it is the best option. You both have to qualify, which almost always means either 10 - 50 years of experience or a bachelor's degree.Married Couples in the Peace Corps?
Yeah it will work out.
My daughter knows a married couple. I didn't. If the Peace Corps has always been your dream, it is the best option. You both have to qualify, which almost always means either 10 - 50 years of experience or a bachelor's degree.Married Couples in the Peace Corps?
Yeah it will work out.
For couples, who is in charge of the social calendar?
Let's make this easy. If they really are a couple, the man is not in charge of anythingFor couples, who is in charge of the social calendar?
We take turns......For couples, who is in charge of the social calendar?
we are not very social -our world revolves around our children and their lives
we have no socil life anymore, so therefor e have no social calender!
me, myself, and i
the women
that would be me
I am If I didn't he would never leave the house
We take turns......For couples, who is in charge of the social calendar?
we are not very social -our world revolves around our children and their lives
we have no socil life anymore, so therefor e have no social calender!
me, myself, and i
the women
that would be me
I am If I didn't he would never leave the house
About couples who's in long distance relationships right now?
question for the guys whos in a LDR right now...do you guys sometimes get paranoias? do you get paranoid sometimes whenever your girl doesnt text you in like what..3 days? or doesnt even call you? whenever you text her she doesnt reply to you?..if yes...what do you do about paranoias?About couples who's in long distance relationships right now?
I would be worried because maybe she could be cheating, sick, her phone broke, internet down, or maybe something serious happened to her like a car accident. So yes I would be paranoid. Only thing I can think of is try to take your mind off of it and do some activities or anything. I really don't know how I would deal with it.
I would be worried because maybe she could be cheating, sick, her phone broke, internet down, or maybe something serious happened to her like a car accident. So yes I would be paranoid. Only thing I can think of is try to take your mind off of it and do some activities or anything. I really don't know how I would deal with it.
Could couples counseling really help with unconditional acceptance and long term self esteem issues?
for my guy and my cat.Could couples counseling really help with unconditional acceptance and long term self esteem issues?
Unconditionally!!! I'm sure this fellow has no problem with ahem, petting the cat...
does your self esteem accept?
Is that really an issue???Could couples counseling really help with unconditional acceptance and long term self esteem issues?
sure
(but i doubt the CAT has self esteem issues)
Umm....couples counseling so your guy will accept your cat? I'm having a hard time understanding what it is you're asking.
i think if your guy hates your cat that much he will resent you paying to try to make him like the cat...
I'm with barryc; with the issue involved, its worth a try.LOL
I would send him to a therapist and your cat to a cat counselor, and if that doesn't work, with hold sex until he can learn to accept your *ahem* pussycat
not sure about that, for couples couseling to work both parties must be willing to listen and accept change along with actually going through with working on changing. and both guys and cats think that they are purrrfect.
it couldn't hurt, but thay have to want it to work. that's what i heard anyway.
Sound wierd; but try it. It just might work. Luck....
Unconditionally!!! I'm sure this fellow has no problem with ahem, petting the cat...
does your self esteem accept?
Is that really an issue???Could couples counseling really help with unconditional acceptance and long term self esteem issues?
sure
(but i doubt the CAT has self esteem issues)
Umm....couples counseling so your guy will accept your cat? I'm having a hard time understanding what it is you're asking.
i think if your guy hates your cat that much he will resent you paying to try to make him like the cat...
I'm with barryc; with the issue involved, its worth a try.LOL
I would send him to a therapist and your cat to a cat counselor, and if that doesn't work, with hold sex until he can learn to accept your *ahem* pussycat
not sure about that, for couples couseling to work both parties must be willing to listen and accept change along with actually going through with working on changing. and both guys and cats think that they are purrrfect.
it couldn't hurt, but thay have to want it to work. that's what i heard anyway.
Sound wierd; but try it. It just might work. Luck....
Any one know of good matching tattoos for couples??
Me and my boyfriend plan on getting matching tattoos. we dont know what to get. Any cool ideas... ( no names)
THanks! =)Any one know of good matching tattoos for couples??
Key and lock (the guy gets the key, the girl gets the lock).
Then at least if you DO break-up, it's not something that is totally obvious that it was a ';couple'; tattoo.
And you don't have to hear those pesky, ';Ew, you got matching tattoos?'; comments, 'cause... they don't match.Any one know of good matching tattoos for couples??
Donald and Daisy Duck, or Mickey and Minnie Mouse ( the characters) because that is how juvenile this sounds! LOL
for free to all people from all nationalities
if you want make a tatto with arabic script
just write your name and i write it in arabic script.
i may not come back to your question again so it is better you contact me by email
write your name or any word come across to your mind and i translate it into arabic script
if you want ,contact me at
rrolex2@yahoo.com
i will try to draw your name in a paint file and will send as attachment
wait til youre married - then instead of wedding rings, put the words anam cara on your ring finger - it means soul mate.
I think matching tattoos are a nice option. Complimentary stuff (e.g. lock %26amp; key) usually sucks about as much as names, but at least the world doesn't know who had the other half.
But really, without knowing what interests you have, it's hard to give *good* suggestions. There are cartoon characters, animals, symbols, words, phrases... choose something you both LOVE and go with it. You'll have it forever, even if the two of you split down the road.
My husband and I got matching dragons. It's the same dragon, in the same spot on our body. His color is just slightly different, b/c he didn't want purple wings, so got blue. Dragons have always been very significant in my life, and he enjoys them as well, so it was a good choice for us.
while i don't think it's a good idea for boyfriend/girlfriends to get matching tattoos atleast you aren't getting names. my husband and i are going to get matching tattoos i think maybe for our 7th wedding anniversary. basically we are getting something that is unique to us. i am not a fan of generic tattoos of togetherness. for example... if your thing as a couple is to go to the movies all the time you could get a film reel segment and some popcorn pieces. it would be special to you two and it wouldn't necessarily say to everybody 'this is about our love'; it'd be like your inside thing. or if you met at a coffee shop you could each get a steaming coffee cup or whatever. just something that isn't your typical ';in love'; tattoo. if you need some specific ideas email me and i'd be glad to help you think of something as well as find a talented artist in your area.
sadly not all tattooers are artists and even the BEST tattoo idea can be a crappy tattoo if it's not done by the right person. and the reverse is true about a talented artist, you can give them a truly crappy idea and they can turn it into a freaking work of art. chosing the artist is the most important thing in getting tattooed.
good luck.
My daughter and I just got matching tattoos last night on our wrists.
Each of us has 1/2 of a heart that looks like flames and is entirely black.
When we grasp hands together the two halves make a complete heart.
This has very special meaning to both of us.
my boyfriend and i got matching tattoos 2 years ago. we got bar codes on our arms. mine has my son's birthday as the code and his has his son's birthday.
For the love of God...don't get matching tattoos. There's not a quicker way to end a relationship than get matching tattoos.
if you're gonna get one anyway, get an egg timer. Cuz thats what you can use to clock how long your relationship will last after a tattoo.
its just bad karma.
Considering the divorce rate why not try getting matching pre-nup tattoos!!
GET SOMETHING THAT CORRELATES ARTISTICALLY AND INDIVIDUALLY
THanks! =)Any one know of good matching tattoos for couples??
Key and lock (the guy gets the key, the girl gets the lock).
Then at least if you DO break-up, it's not something that is totally obvious that it was a ';couple'; tattoo.
And you don't have to hear those pesky, ';Ew, you got matching tattoos?'; comments, 'cause... they don't match.Any one know of good matching tattoos for couples??
Donald and Daisy Duck, or Mickey and Minnie Mouse ( the characters) because that is how juvenile this sounds! LOL
for free to all people from all nationalities
if you want make a tatto with arabic script
just write your name and i write it in arabic script.
i may not come back to your question again so it is better you contact me by email
write your name or any word come across to your mind and i translate it into arabic script
if you want ,contact me at
rrolex2@yahoo.com
i will try to draw your name in a paint file and will send as attachment
wait til youre married - then instead of wedding rings, put the words anam cara on your ring finger - it means soul mate.
I think matching tattoos are a nice option. Complimentary stuff (e.g. lock %26amp; key) usually sucks about as much as names, but at least the world doesn't know who had the other half.
But really, without knowing what interests you have, it's hard to give *good* suggestions. There are cartoon characters, animals, symbols, words, phrases... choose something you both LOVE and go with it. You'll have it forever, even if the two of you split down the road.
My husband and I got matching dragons. It's the same dragon, in the same spot on our body. His color is just slightly different, b/c he didn't want purple wings, so got blue. Dragons have always been very significant in my life, and he enjoys them as well, so it was a good choice for us.
while i don't think it's a good idea for boyfriend/girlfriends to get matching tattoos atleast you aren't getting names. my husband and i are going to get matching tattoos i think maybe for our 7th wedding anniversary. basically we are getting something that is unique to us. i am not a fan of generic tattoos of togetherness. for example... if your thing as a couple is to go to the movies all the time you could get a film reel segment and some popcorn pieces. it would be special to you two and it wouldn't necessarily say to everybody 'this is about our love'; it'd be like your inside thing. or if you met at a coffee shop you could each get a steaming coffee cup or whatever. just something that isn't your typical ';in love'; tattoo. if you need some specific ideas email me and i'd be glad to help you think of something as well as find a talented artist in your area.
sadly not all tattooers are artists and even the BEST tattoo idea can be a crappy tattoo if it's not done by the right person. and the reverse is true about a talented artist, you can give them a truly crappy idea and they can turn it into a freaking work of art. chosing the artist is the most important thing in getting tattooed.
good luck.
My daughter and I just got matching tattoos last night on our wrists.
Each of us has 1/2 of a heart that looks like flames and is entirely black.
When we grasp hands together the two halves make a complete heart.
This has very special meaning to both of us.
my boyfriend and i got matching tattoos 2 years ago. we got bar codes on our arms. mine has my son's birthday as the code and his has his son's birthday.
For the love of God...don't get matching tattoos. There's not a quicker way to end a relationship than get matching tattoos.
if you're gonna get one anyway, get an egg timer. Cuz thats what you can use to clock how long your relationship will last after a tattoo.
its just bad karma.
Considering the divorce rate why not try getting matching pre-nup tattoos!!
GET SOMETHING THAT CORRELATES ARTISTICALLY AND INDIVIDUALLY
I am having a party tomorrow and am stressing about food. I need some ideas..10 couples and 7 kids.?
pizza, pasta, salad, chicken fingers and mini hot dogs are a favorite, cookies etc.I am having a party tomorrow and am stressing about food. I need some ideas..10 couples and 7 kids.?
You'd probably want some food which people can grab in small portions. Usually party sized pizza, pasta, lasagna, salad, noodles, rice, chips, fried chicken, fries, are good ideas. Don't forget about drinks. You'd probably want pop, water, juice, lemonade and such. If it's hot, you'd want to make some ice too.
Good luck!I am having a party tomorrow and am stressing about food. I need some ideas..10 couples and 7 kids.?
You'll need something that the kids and the adults will both be able to have. Maybe a lasagna (vegetarian or meat - depends on guests) or something - easy and tasty. A side salad is good too - you might want to make it self-serve, as I guess a lot of the kids won't want it.
I think you should get like the little chicken nibblets, some meatballs, pasta salad, the party sandwiches. Just get small things. Nothing really big.
pizza, pasta, %26amp; salad
Spaghetti and meatballs with a salad and garlic bread.
Lasagna, spaghetti and meatballs and salads are good. Or order the pasta pans at Pizza Hut, they feed a lot.
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You'd probably want some food which people can grab in small portions. Usually party sized pizza, pasta, lasagna, salad, noodles, rice, chips, fried chicken, fries, are good ideas. Don't forget about drinks. You'd probably want pop, water, juice, lemonade and such. If it's hot, you'd want to make some ice too.
Good luck!I am having a party tomorrow and am stressing about food. I need some ideas..10 couples and 7 kids.?
You'll need something that the kids and the adults will both be able to have. Maybe a lasagna (vegetarian or meat - depends on guests) or something - easy and tasty. A side salad is good too - you might want to make it self-serve, as I guess a lot of the kids won't want it.
I think you should get like the little chicken nibblets, some meatballs, pasta salad, the party sandwiches. Just get small things. Nothing really big.
pizza, pasta, %26amp; salad
Spaghetti and meatballs with a salad and garlic bread.
Lasagna, spaghetti and meatballs and salads are good. Or order the pasta pans at Pizza Hut, they feed a lot.
Chicken Wings
The couples that date in 9th grade...what percent do you think will last all through high school?
ha, There is only one thing a 9th grade boy wants. Trust me.
But there are some good ones, and i do know two couples that are in their 40's that met in highschool. So, i give you a 2% :)The couples that date in 9th grade...what percent do you think will last all through high school?
None. Once the guy ***** you, he leaves.The couples that date in 9th grade...what percent do you think will last all through high school?
probably not...tats young love your both bound 2 meet new ppl tat youll find more things in common with as you both mature...
probably less than 1%, perhaps 0.5%...we had a couple hundred people in my freshman class and i can only think of one couple that lasted throughout high school but they broke up like a year or two after we graduated so in the end they aren't together
like 0-1%
Out of all the couples i've ever know, i've only known 2 that dated all throughout high school.
1%
something always goes wrong
like 2%
slim to none.
sorry. but that's the brutal truth.
if the relationship is serious and they really like each other, then they'll probably last. but most couples break up at some point.
But there are some good ones, and i do know two couples that are in their 40's that met in highschool. So, i give you a 2% :)The couples that date in 9th grade...what percent do you think will last all through high school?
None. Once the guy ***** you, he leaves.The couples that date in 9th grade...what percent do you think will last all through high school?
probably not...tats young love your both bound 2 meet new ppl tat youll find more things in common with as you both mature...
probably less than 1%, perhaps 0.5%...we had a couple hundred people in my freshman class and i can only think of one couple that lasted throughout high school but they broke up like a year or two after we graduated so in the end they aren't together
like 0-1%
Out of all the couples i've ever know, i've only known 2 that dated all throughout high school.
1%
something always goes wrong
like 2%
slim to none.
sorry. but that's the brutal truth.
if the relationship is serious and they really like each other, then they'll probably last. but most couples break up at some point.
Why there are no asian girls white men couples?
but lots of asian men white women couplesWhy there are no asian girls white men couples?
there's a lot of them..you can see them dating at malls in our country!!hahaWhy there are no asian girls white men couples?
Miss Kiki,
you just don鈥檛 know, but there are so many white guys+ Asian girls are couples i think you need to be a trip to London or USA,
Well you are right Asian men鈥檚 and white women鈥檚 are couples I would like to be one of them if she will agree lol!
well thats not completely true - I'm English - Caucasian, with a bit of French, and my girlfriend is English (Asian ie Indian) and we've been a couple for ages.
PS: she's also the most beautiful girl I've seen - in fact I find asian girls the prettiest!
because asian girls dont trust white men %26amp; they go as their parents say.
no i see a lot of couples like that and i think when i do see them they look beautiful together
Because White women are wise
There's a lot of asian girls+white men=couples.You just dont meet them yet.
thats false.i know so many asian girls datin white men.
hey r u really observing?! it's actually the opposite..
Where are you from? I think the opposite is true.
Married Couples? What is one question you feel you should ask your mate before marriage?
Getting married--2nd time, and want to do things a lot different than the first time.Married Couples? What is one question you feel you should ask your mate before marriage?
Here are the questions my wife posed to me ... very early on:
1. Are you willing to hold down a job?
2. Are you willing to love my son like he's your own?
3. Are you willing to step up and be the leader of our family?
4. Are you willing to work on your spiritual life, both for yourself and for us as a couple?Married Couples? What is one question you feel you should ask your mate before marriage?
Find out about the kids thing first.
Do you want to have kids?
just follow your gut feeling on this . If he is a man that will carry you on his hands for the rest of your lifes then go for it .
would it matter if i already have kids
I am planning on getting married for the first time this year. My husband-to-be, and I have been trying to prepare ourselves towards a happy, and committed married life.
Through research, I have found that being able to go to a pre-marriage counseling is important. According to your religion, if you have one, usually they have these courses available.
However, there is one site that has helped me a lot, and currently my future husband and I have been going through these questions.
I realize you just asked for one question, but these are 10 main deal breakers...I think its definitely worth a look.
We have been giving each other time to go through these questions...depending on which question, 24hrs, or even more depending on how focused we are.
I wouldn't recommend reviewing the questions and or comparing answers when either one of you is stressed, or tired.
Hope it helps...and Congratulations!
What are you views on domestic violence?
Have you ever cheated?
How important is family to you?
The question you should really ask is one for both yourself and your partner. Are you ready to make a life time commitment to this one person?
is this all an act and once the ring goes on the real you comes out? or are you always being yourself and if so, please fill out this resume and have it notarized so in case you do change i'll have this as my reason for dissolution.
What is the one thing you could never forgive me for?
Get a good pre-nup...
There are many questions my fiancee and I discussed and are discussing (June 22 is our big day). Some important questions are, ';do you want kids or how many?'; ';do we both work or does one stay home with the kids?'; ';buy or rent a home?'; any questions about finance, who pays which bills, who does what house work, who cooks and when, do you believe in spanking, do you have the same religious beliefs, do you like a clean house or can you live with a messy house, how important is your job, home school or public or private school for the kids, how do we make big purchases, do we keep separate checking/savings accounts or joint or both? There are so many questions to be asked and answered and good job for you that you recognized that.
What percentage of the time do you lie?
Do you like getting kids?
Make sure they really want to be married, and that this is the thing that they want. The last thing you want is to get into a marriage and your partener bails quick. :)
R u gonna be p/o if i cheat?
There are several key issues (not to mention questions) that should be discussed by ANY couple; whether it's the first marriage or the third.
Issues like: sex, children, money, careers, religion, politics, philosophy, personal interests, etc.
What you must do is ASK YOURSELF what are the most important issues for YOU. Then discuss them with your potential mate.
im going thru the same thing as you..this will be my 2nd too..ive been thinking about what went wrong with our first and we have talked about it..its a scary thought of getting married again..there will always be something you discover later down the road, but communication is the best thing..dont be afraid to say something, so far, i havent and he accepts my fears..sorry if this didnt help any with a certain answer you are looking for..
I always ask them if they like it up the ***.
see bank records
see credit card statements
see business accounts and statements
look at tax returns
How many love rods can you do at once?
I remarried about a year ago, and I bought a book that had LOTS of questions to ask before you got married. Truthfully the fact I felt compelled to buy the book and then proceeded to interrogate my husband with all the questions annoyed him a bit--he was a good sport at first though!
Seriously there is one question that is spot on:
Do you have any unfinished business?
mine was ';do you swallow ?';
Here are the questions my wife posed to me ... very early on:
1. Are you willing to hold down a job?
2. Are you willing to love my son like he's your own?
3. Are you willing to step up and be the leader of our family?
4. Are you willing to work on your spiritual life, both for yourself and for us as a couple?Married Couples? What is one question you feel you should ask your mate before marriage?
Find out about the kids thing first.
Do you want to have kids?
just follow your gut feeling on this . If he is a man that will carry you on his hands for the rest of your lifes then go for it .
would it matter if i already have kids
I am planning on getting married for the first time this year. My husband-to-be, and I have been trying to prepare ourselves towards a happy, and committed married life.
Through research, I have found that being able to go to a pre-marriage counseling is important. According to your religion, if you have one, usually they have these courses available.
However, there is one site that has helped me a lot, and currently my future husband and I have been going through these questions.
I realize you just asked for one question, but these are 10 main deal breakers...I think its definitely worth a look.
We have been giving each other time to go through these questions...depending on which question, 24hrs, or even more depending on how focused we are.
I wouldn't recommend reviewing the questions and or comparing answers when either one of you is stressed, or tired.
Hope it helps...and Congratulations!
What are you views on domestic violence?
Have you ever cheated?
How important is family to you?
The question you should really ask is one for both yourself and your partner. Are you ready to make a life time commitment to this one person?
is this all an act and once the ring goes on the real you comes out? or are you always being yourself and if so, please fill out this resume and have it notarized so in case you do change i'll have this as my reason for dissolution.
What is the one thing you could never forgive me for?
Get a good pre-nup...
There are many questions my fiancee and I discussed and are discussing (June 22 is our big day). Some important questions are, ';do you want kids or how many?'; ';do we both work or does one stay home with the kids?'; ';buy or rent a home?'; any questions about finance, who pays which bills, who does what house work, who cooks and when, do you believe in spanking, do you have the same religious beliefs, do you like a clean house or can you live with a messy house, how important is your job, home school or public or private school for the kids, how do we make big purchases, do we keep separate checking/savings accounts or joint or both? There are so many questions to be asked and answered and good job for you that you recognized that.
What percentage of the time do you lie?
Do you like getting kids?
Make sure they really want to be married, and that this is the thing that they want. The last thing you want is to get into a marriage and your partener bails quick. :)
R u gonna be p/o if i cheat?
There are several key issues (not to mention questions) that should be discussed by ANY couple; whether it's the first marriage or the third.
Issues like: sex, children, money, careers, religion, politics, philosophy, personal interests, etc.
What you must do is ASK YOURSELF what are the most important issues for YOU. Then discuss them with your potential mate.
im going thru the same thing as you..this will be my 2nd too..ive been thinking about what went wrong with our first and we have talked about it..its a scary thought of getting married again..there will always be something you discover later down the road, but communication is the best thing..dont be afraid to say something, so far, i havent and he accepts my fears..sorry if this didnt help any with a certain answer you are looking for..
I always ask them if they like it up the ***.
see bank records
see credit card statements
see business accounts and statements
look at tax returns
How many love rods can you do at once?
I remarried about a year ago, and I bought a book that had LOTS of questions to ask before you got married. Truthfully the fact I felt compelled to buy the book and then proceeded to interrogate my husband with all the questions annoyed him a bit--he was a good sport at first though!
Seriously there is one question that is spot on:
Do you have any unfinished business?
mine was ';do you swallow ?';
Does anybody know of a kawaii (cute) anime couples site?
A gallery with a ton of really cute couples.
And not just something like Inu Yasha or Tenchi.
Something you wouldn't normally see around a google search.
Please let me know of a gallery including these requests and possibly large, high quality pictures.
I know this may prove tough, but I've been to so many places and have over 130 of the best couples i've seen.
My goal is to collect over 1000 of the best anime couples on the web, so please help me out.
I don't blame anyone for trying, so give me all you've got!
P.S. I'm working on my grammar and spelling so let me know if I got something wrong above.Does anybody know of a kawaii (cute) anime couples site?
If English isn't your first language your grammar is superb. If it is your given tongue, it's still in the top 5% for this site.
Your question seemed so lonely I had to answer it.
Sorry however, I don't know anything about the subject.
Here's a thumbs-up for luck in your quest.
Hope you fulfill your goal.face mask
And not just something like Inu Yasha or Tenchi.
Something you wouldn't normally see around a google search.
Please let me know of a gallery including these requests and possibly large, high quality pictures.
I know this may prove tough, but I've been to so many places and have over 130 of the best couples i've seen.
My goal is to collect over 1000 of the best anime couples on the web, so please help me out.
I don't blame anyone for trying, so give me all you've got!
P.S. I'm working on my grammar and spelling so let me know if I got something wrong above.Does anybody know of a kawaii (cute) anime couples site?
If English isn't your first language your grammar is superb. If it is your given tongue, it's still in the top 5% for this site.
Your question seemed so lonely I had to answer it.
Sorry however, I don't know anything about the subject.
Here's a thumbs-up for luck in your quest.
Hope you fulfill your goal.
Married Couples - Has your spouse ever cut a fart in their sleep?
When one of you is snoozing and the other is puttering, reading, watching the tv, etc.,.... did your other half let one go - while they were in dreamland? Did you get up an run into the other room or did you wake your honey with your own laughter?
*Would they deny that they have broken wind in their sleep?
*Which ones do they let off more often,...... The Silent but Deadly, The Slow Bubbling Leak,... The Noisy but Harmless,... or The Sloppy Loud'n' Nasty -makes your eyes water while you gasp for air, . . .
Well, I am curious and I would like to share a laugh too.
And yes, one of my Ex's has told me I have done it too.Married Couples - Has your spouse ever cut a fart in their sleep?
Oh goodness yes. The hubby does all the above. half the time I expect to wake up floating on a green vapor cloud. I have woke him up cracking up.starts out as disgust then it trickles into giggles. Finally the laughter overcomes me. Maybe it's ';laughing gas';??? But it does make my eyes water. LOLMarried Couples - Has your spouse ever cut a fart in their sleep?
Wow, is this what I have to look forward to?
Lord yes. It's normal and natural and, after more then 20 years of marriage, hardly something to laugh about or comment on.
If you fart in your sleep and there's no one there to hear it, does it make a noise???
Okay . . . . . . . . why is it that I'm not surprised that you have more than one ex?
lol.. i wake them with my own laughter........
more often in sleep the sloppy loud';N';nasty-
and during daytime the silent but deadly
alot of times when my hubby cuts it i throw the blanket over his head and hold down ... lol.. he wakes to the nasty smell of his own........lol
*Would they deny that they have broken wind in their sleep?
*Which ones do they let off more often,...... The Silent but Deadly, The Slow Bubbling Leak,... The Noisy but Harmless,... or The Sloppy Loud'n' Nasty -makes your eyes water while you gasp for air, . . .
Well, I am curious and I would like to share a laugh too.
And yes, one of my Ex's has told me I have done it too.Married Couples - Has your spouse ever cut a fart in their sleep?
Oh goodness yes. The hubby does all the above. half the time I expect to wake up floating on a green vapor cloud. I have woke him up cracking up.starts out as disgust then it trickles into giggles. Finally the laughter overcomes me. Maybe it's ';laughing gas';??? But it does make my eyes water. LOLMarried Couples - Has your spouse ever cut a fart in their sleep?
Wow, is this what I have to look forward to?
Lord yes. It's normal and natural and, after more then 20 years of marriage, hardly something to laugh about or comment on.
If you fart in your sleep and there's no one there to hear it, does it make a noise???
Okay . . . . . . . . why is it that I'm not surprised that you have more than one ex?
lol.. i wake them with my own laughter........
more often in sleep the sloppy loud';N';nasty-
and during daytime the silent but deadly
alot of times when my hubby cuts it i throw the blanket over his head and hold down ... lol.. he wakes to the nasty smell of his own........lol
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Is there any other couples that like the thought of playing strip poker with other couples ?
or maybe other adult games and also fun over webcam were 22 f 29 mIs there any other couples that like the thought of playing strip poker with other couples ?
The only penis %26amp; vagina I'm interested are MINE %26amp; MY HUSBAND'S. Everyone else can keep it in their pants. And HELL no I would not be on a webcam. That's so cheesy anyway. It's only fun for the couple that actually does it. Nobody else really wants to see it. They're never hot. Mostly pasty white %26amp; chubby. Eww.Is there any other couples that like the thought of playing strip poker with other couples ?
Playing games like this can be fun. A few drinking games can lead to some more adult fun. My wife and I have had some great times with some of our friends.
Enjoy it.
k
The odds are you'll be swinging before its' over.
I personally don't. But there are people who start off that way then end up being swingers.
Your in the wrong place here...try and adult webcam site.
Wow, how does the intimacy in YOUR marriage rank?
That was a joke btw.
Our friends are not that attractive!
No Thank You!
Errrr NO!
The only penis %26amp; vagina I'm interested are MINE %26amp; MY HUSBAND'S. Everyone else can keep it in their pants. And HELL no I would not be on a webcam. That's so cheesy anyway. It's only fun for the couple that actually does it. Nobody else really wants to see it. They're never hot. Mostly pasty white %26amp; chubby. Eww.Is there any other couples that like the thought of playing strip poker with other couples ?
Playing games like this can be fun. A few drinking games can lead to some more adult fun. My wife and I have had some great times with some of our friends.
Enjoy it.
k
The odds are you'll be swinging before its' over.
I personally don't. But there are people who start off that way then end up being swingers.
Your in the wrong place here...try and adult webcam site.
Wow, how does the intimacy in YOUR marriage rank?
That was a joke btw.
Our friends are not that attractive!
No Thank You!
Errrr NO!
Why is it that in general, military couples tend to get married and have kids very young?
like 18, 19, 20. I'm not saying all do this, but many do! I have friends who are children of people in the military and that's the case with them more often than not.Why is it that in general, military couples tend to get married and have kids very young?
Why not, what's wrong with it? It's been that way for centuries.Why is it that in general, military couples tend to get married and have kids very young?
I was in the AF for 8 years. I went in right out of high school I was only 17. It was my first time away from home and it was scary! I got married when I was 18. I was lonely and thought I could start my own family and I would be OK. Instead we ended up getting divorced 18 months latter. I really think this is the reason why military couples have such a high rate of divorce. They just get married to young. But I give props to those that manage to make it last!!
Because being in the military makes them be in dangerous places all the time so they want to have a family before they die or if they do. They don't want to leave their wives alone, i guess. But it would just cause more hurt. hmmm im not sure.
bc u never know when one of them is gonna die. n u get better benefits n housing
My husband is military and I am former military. We got married at 21. I think to answer your question you have to look at the difference in a civilian at 20 years old and a service member at 20 years old.
A normal civilian at age 20 is either in college or working their first serious job, or even still living with Mom %26amp; Dad. They probably are into the ';party'; scene, are somewhat immature, and not sure of what they want in life... and even if they know, they are not yet in a stable career, financially stable, or fully independent from Mom %26amp; Dad.
A military service member at age 20 probably entered the service at 18, and has cut the apron strings 2 years ago. The military has taught them to manage finances, they have lived alone, had huge responsibilies thrust at them, have a career promised to them for as long as they want it, and have many educational opportunities to better themselves and their careers. In short, they have been forced to ';enter the real world'; and grow up very quickly.
I think had I still been in college at 21, I would have still been going to frat parties and skipping classes and been in short term relationships. But instead, at 21, I had a serious career, grown-up responsibilities and I was more mature and ready for that next thing in my life. And our two kids quickly followed... I think that comes from the wife's desire for companionship all those days without her husband. At least that was the case for me. And we were definitely ready for the responsibility. Also, as a previous poster mentioned, pay increases and health care is provided.
At 20 I was marrying a military. Maybe we would of waited longer in a normal situation but he was being transferred 2000 miles away and girlfriends don`t get to follow only wives. We (the wives) have to quit our jobs, leave our family and friends behind and often we end up on remote bases alone all day long while hubby is working and making new buddies at work.....we have a lot of time on our hands to think about babies.
haha thats a good question. Im 19, and my fiance and I(who is in the army) are expecting our first child, but hes on deployment for the next year or so...our little boy will be 7 mos old when he gets back. We have different relationships than you regular people. Its the hardest type there is, they can be here one year, gone for the next 2, you never know when you will see them. We are ';intimate'; every chance we get. Not like civilian couples who see each other and sometimes dont even have time for sex or are tired of looking at each other. We treasure EVERY moment, and if kids are a product of that, then so be it! why do you care?
They do NOT realize the demands of the military before they do this or else they'd wait.
I think that there a few reasons why this happens.
Reason one: When a young person, man or woman, joins the military, they are thrown into adult situations that they may not have encountered before, most likely having a stable job, a paycheck that comes monthly/bimonthly regardless, and like most youngsters that go off to college, they are away from home probably for the first time and in their spare time are completely free to do whatever they choose with their money. Those young men and women that join the military now have not necessarily a TON of money to play around with, but they have a lot, and it gives them a sense that they are 'a real adult' and can do what real adults that have careers can do- anything from purchasing cars to staying out and racking up hundreds of dollars in bar bills and credit card bills. With that comes some possibly dumb decisions- having unprotected sex with other young people, whether townies, your high school sweetheart, college students, or other military members. And, now that one of you has a stable job and the military teaches you about honor and commitment, people who find themselves in the real situation of becoming pregnant now have a sense that they can not only handle a baby (because they are now an 'adult') but they can also provide, because they have that stable job, housing and medical care is provided. Also, when you're young and you're put into life and death situations, why wouldn't you want to have your love around you and provided for if something should happen? That's not to say that marriage isn't founded on love and the want to be with that person. But, if you're stationed in Japan, your girlfriend isn't going to be able to come with you. And, that happens- people get married to have each other around.
Reason Two (and probably the more likely of the two): People are stupid. Not that having a child is stupid, but because of all the reasons I've stated above, people feel at 18/19/20/21 that they are adults, they have a career, they have money, why the hell not get married? And then, some women are like, well now that I'm married, I don't have to prevent pregnancy anymore- and that is the truth. Men and women stop protecting themselves against pregnancy once they are married. To me, that's a dumb decision.
Maybe they feel secure with all the ready benefits they get.The travel is usually inevitable,so why wait on house,good schools,and a neighborhood.Gung Ho.
Its different when your in the military. I like to think of it as you are about 10 years ahead of your peers in terms of maturity and financial responsibilty. When you get married in the military you are automatically given a house on base or your pay is increased so you can afford a house off base. Also you get free health and dental insurance. Not to say it is easier but the military looks out for your familiy they try to take as much care of you as possible. Its alot harder for someone who is 18, 19 or 20 and they have to do worry about all the above things on their own.
Quite simple, as chaotic as Military life is and the fact that you usually are a long way from home you need stability. A wife and if you have kids provide atleast the illusion of stability. I was in the Navy when I married my wife, I was 20 she was 19, next month we celebrate our 13th wedding anniversary.
Good question!
My cousin is having his 3rd child and he is only 23 years old!
I think it is because they are away for so long that the couple's passion gets stored up and they do nothing but make love when they are together.
Plus, guys/girls in the military seem to possess a maturity that most younger people lack! That makes them more able to accept major responsibility!
because your girlfriend can't transfer with you, but your wife can. plus you get paid more if you have dependants via housing, health benefits etc...
Why not, what's wrong with it? It's been that way for centuries.Why is it that in general, military couples tend to get married and have kids very young?
I was in the AF for 8 years. I went in right out of high school I was only 17. It was my first time away from home and it was scary! I got married when I was 18. I was lonely and thought I could start my own family and I would be OK. Instead we ended up getting divorced 18 months latter. I really think this is the reason why military couples have such a high rate of divorce. They just get married to young. But I give props to those that manage to make it last!!
Because being in the military makes them be in dangerous places all the time so they want to have a family before they die or if they do. They don't want to leave their wives alone, i guess. But it would just cause more hurt. hmmm im not sure.
bc u never know when one of them is gonna die. n u get better benefits n housing
My husband is military and I am former military. We got married at 21. I think to answer your question you have to look at the difference in a civilian at 20 years old and a service member at 20 years old.
A normal civilian at age 20 is either in college or working their first serious job, or even still living with Mom %26amp; Dad. They probably are into the ';party'; scene, are somewhat immature, and not sure of what they want in life... and even if they know, they are not yet in a stable career, financially stable, or fully independent from Mom %26amp; Dad.
A military service member at age 20 probably entered the service at 18, and has cut the apron strings 2 years ago. The military has taught them to manage finances, they have lived alone, had huge responsibilies thrust at them, have a career promised to them for as long as they want it, and have many educational opportunities to better themselves and their careers. In short, they have been forced to ';enter the real world'; and grow up very quickly.
I think had I still been in college at 21, I would have still been going to frat parties and skipping classes and been in short term relationships. But instead, at 21, I had a serious career, grown-up responsibilities and I was more mature and ready for that next thing in my life. And our two kids quickly followed... I think that comes from the wife's desire for companionship all those days without her husband. At least that was the case for me. And we were definitely ready for the responsibility. Also, as a previous poster mentioned, pay increases and health care is provided.
At 20 I was marrying a military. Maybe we would of waited longer in a normal situation but he was being transferred 2000 miles away and girlfriends don`t get to follow only wives. We (the wives) have to quit our jobs, leave our family and friends behind and often we end up on remote bases alone all day long while hubby is working and making new buddies at work.....we have a lot of time on our hands to think about babies.
haha thats a good question. Im 19, and my fiance and I(who is in the army) are expecting our first child, but hes on deployment for the next year or so...our little boy will be 7 mos old when he gets back. We have different relationships than you regular people. Its the hardest type there is, they can be here one year, gone for the next 2, you never know when you will see them. We are ';intimate'; every chance we get. Not like civilian couples who see each other and sometimes dont even have time for sex or are tired of looking at each other. We treasure EVERY moment, and if kids are a product of that, then so be it! why do you care?
They do NOT realize the demands of the military before they do this or else they'd wait.
I think that there a few reasons why this happens.
Reason one: When a young person, man or woman, joins the military, they are thrown into adult situations that they may not have encountered before, most likely having a stable job, a paycheck that comes monthly/bimonthly regardless, and like most youngsters that go off to college, they are away from home probably for the first time and in their spare time are completely free to do whatever they choose with their money. Those young men and women that join the military now have not necessarily a TON of money to play around with, but they have a lot, and it gives them a sense that they are 'a real adult' and can do what real adults that have careers can do- anything from purchasing cars to staying out and racking up hundreds of dollars in bar bills and credit card bills. With that comes some possibly dumb decisions- having unprotected sex with other young people, whether townies, your high school sweetheart, college students, or other military members. And, now that one of you has a stable job and the military teaches you about honor and commitment, people who find themselves in the real situation of becoming pregnant now have a sense that they can not only handle a baby (because they are now an 'adult') but they can also provide, because they have that stable job, housing and medical care is provided. Also, when you're young and you're put into life and death situations, why wouldn't you want to have your love around you and provided for if something should happen? That's not to say that marriage isn't founded on love and the want to be with that person. But, if you're stationed in Japan, your girlfriend isn't going to be able to come with you. And, that happens- people get married to have each other around.
Reason Two (and probably the more likely of the two): People are stupid. Not that having a child is stupid, but because of all the reasons I've stated above, people feel at 18/19/20/21 that they are adults, they have a career, they have money, why the hell not get married? And then, some women are like, well now that I'm married, I don't have to prevent pregnancy anymore- and that is the truth. Men and women stop protecting themselves against pregnancy once they are married. To me, that's a dumb decision.
Maybe they feel secure with all the ready benefits they get.The travel is usually inevitable,so why wait on house,good schools,and a neighborhood.Gung Ho.
Its different when your in the military. I like to think of it as you are about 10 years ahead of your peers in terms of maturity and financial responsibilty. When you get married in the military you are automatically given a house on base or your pay is increased so you can afford a house off base. Also you get free health and dental insurance. Not to say it is easier but the military looks out for your familiy they try to take as much care of you as possible. Its alot harder for someone who is 18, 19 or 20 and they have to do worry about all the above things on their own.
Quite simple, as chaotic as Military life is and the fact that you usually are a long way from home you need stability. A wife and if you have kids provide atleast the illusion of stability. I was in the Navy when I married my wife, I was 20 she was 19, next month we celebrate our 13th wedding anniversary.
Good question!
My cousin is having his 3rd child and he is only 23 years old!
I think it is because they are away for so long that the couple's passion gets stored up and they do nothing but make love when they are together.
Plus, guys/girls in the military seem to possess a maturity that most younger people lack! That makes them more able to accept major responsibility!
because your girlfriend can't transfer with you, but your wife can. plus you get paid more if you have dependants via housing, health benefits etc...
I think it is good that unmarried couples are going to get the same rights as?
Married. as there are thousands of children living with unmarried parents, and while the women is usually the lower paid one. If the partner takes of with some young flousie then he still has to maintain the children and the home, if he wants to take on expenses for 2 or more families more fool him.? what do you think?I think it is good that unmarried couples are going to get the same rights as?
I think because of the social climate of our times it is only right. Marriage is on a downward spiral, the children and ';family'; should be protected despite the parents marital status.I think it is good that unmarried couples are going to get the same rights as?
If court settlements after breakups are handled the same way for those who were legally married and for those who lived together, then, people would be more careful about all their choices. It isn't the paper that makes a marriage but commitment. Those that don't marry won't have such an easy out. And, I think that's good. C. :)!!
i think that unfortunately people dont get married anymore because it is to much responsibility and this law just makes it easier not to get married so i disagree that it is good. it is avery bad thing as i think when you are married you are more stable and work at things more, if you argue you forgive, unlike if you are just partners you just give up, please what is wrong with people nower days they are so easy to give up and want all the benifits for doing nothing
Just imagine being single and had worked to build up your own business, say it's worth hundreds of thousands, would you let your partner move in?
How could you take the the risk that 5 years down the line you split and they want a third or half of the company and your money?
It would mean a massive court battle and even though they might not win that amount in full your still going to be spending mon ths and a small fortune to fight the claim.
You can look on marraige as a religious, spiritual and romantic thing but let's just deal with it from the legal point of view in that you have a choice.
You can get legally married, decide to share all your wealth, home, business or you don't and then you both have the choice to keep everything separate.
Giving everyone the same rights takes away that choice, you can't keep your business or treasured possessions safe from gold diggers, i would be very worried about being single if this happens.
Forgetting children, forgetting families, forget all that, there has to be a legal way to protect what is yours, what you have worked for when you enter a relationship and we have that now, the choice of not getting married.
If you want the benefits of marriage get married. It's that simple.
i dont agree...at all
I think its great too
yeah but what about all the gold digging money grabing *****'s out there that will be with me just for the lolly.................???
and there is some out there trust me
yes it is # it shows that soociety is accpting peoples rights more and more
The institution of Marriage is important. Our society has changed the way people look at marriage. Divorce is on the rise and there are many children living in a broken home. Family values are not the same as they were years ago. Marriage protccts the family values as long as you know the rules. There are different situations that cause divorce and I am not toatally against them. There are not any situations that two people should not have a legal paper that gives them their rights on who gets what and how to split things. Pre Nup... that is the answer. If you love someone enough to marry them you should trust them in what they want. Everyone must now protect themselves in the event of a break up. The children suffer the most. Their standard of living is taken away and there is nothing they can do about it.
If you are unmarried and never were then the rights should not be the same. If you were married and divorced the rights should be.
Bottom line marriage is the key to your rights.
I doubt any of this made sense on paper but in my head I know what I wanted to say....
Think it's been along time coming but it's absolutely right.
Shame so many women in the past have had to lose out cos they've had no rights.
In my country, if you have been living in a defacto relationship for 3 years then you have the same rights in law as though you were married. Doesn't seem to have caused any major problems..
I am with alphacenturi - he has a really good point. By the way, don't forget it works both ways, in my view, if the woman runs off with another man - why should she get any money. Money for the kids yes but not for her - she can get a job an pay her own way. Sometimes, a man would prefer to take on two expenses then stay with a woman he doesn not want to be with.
I think because of the social climate of our times it is only right. Marriage is on a downward spiral, the children and ';family'; should be protected despite the parents marital status.I think it is good that unmarried couples are going to get the same rights as?
If court settlements after breakups are handled the same way for those who were legally married and for those who lived together, then, people would be more careful about all their choices. It isn't the paper that makes a marriage but commitment. Those that don't marry won't have such an easy out. And, I think that's good. C. :)!!
i think that unfortunately people dont get married anymore because it is to much responsibility and this law just makes it easier not to get married so i disagree that it is good. it is avery bad thing as i think when you are married you are more stable and work at things more, if you argue you forgive, unlike if you are just partners you just give up, please what is wrong with people nower days they are so easy to give up and want all the benifits for doing nothing
Just imagine being single and had worked to build up your own business, say it's worth hundreds of thousands, would you let your partner move in?
How could you take the the risk that 5 years down the line you split and they want a third or half of the company and your money?
It would mean a massive court battle and even though they might not win that amount in full your still going to be spending mon ths and a small fortune to fight the claim.
You can look on marraige as a religious, spiritual and romantic thing but let's just deal with it from the legal point of view in that you have a choice.
You can get legally married, decide to share all your wealth, home, business or you don't and then you both have the choice to keep everything separate.
Giving everyone the same rights takes away that choice, you can't keep your business or treasured possessions safe from gold diggers, i would be very worried about being single if this happens.
Forgetting children, forgetting families, forget all that, there has to be a legal way to protect what is yours, what you have worked for when you enter a relationship and we have that now, the choice of not getting married.
If you want the benefits of marriage get married. It's that simple.
i dont agree...at all
I think its great too
yeah but what about all the gold digging money grabing *****'s out there that will be with me just for the lolly.................???
and there is some out there trust me
yes it is # it shows that soociety is accpting peoples rights more and more
The institution of Marriage is important. Our society has changed the way people look at marriage. Divorce is on the rise and there are many children living in a broken home. Family values are not the same as they were years ago. Marriage protccts the family values as long as you know the rules. There are different situations that cause divorce and I am not toatally against them. There are not any situations that two people should not have a legal paper that gives them their rights on who gets what and how to split things. Pre Nup... that is the answer. If you love someone enough to marry them you should trust them in what they want. Everyone must now protect themselves in the event of a break up. The children suffer the most. Their standard of living is taken away and there is nothing they can do about it.
If you are unmarried and never were then the rights should not be the same. If you were married and divorced the rights should be.
Bottom line marriage is the key to your rights.
I doubt any of this made sense on paper but in my head I know what I wanted to say....
Think it's been along time coming but it's absolutely right.
Shame so many women in the past have had to lose out cos they've had no rights.
In my country, if you have been living in a defacto relationship for 3 years then you have the same rights in law as though you were married. Doesn't seem to have caused any major problems..
I am with alphacenturi - he has a really good point. By the way, don't forget it works both ways, in my view, if the woman runs off with another man - why should she get any money. Money for the kids yes but not for her - she can get a job an pay her own way. Sometimes, a man would prefer to take on two expenses then stay with a woman he doesn not want to be with.
In those two questions posed by those couples about ultrasonic weapons, why did they recieve ignorant advise?
the advise given by those 4 or 5 people was insulting/ignorant/ and may have shown how foolish and devoid of intelligence they are. Ultrasonic weapons and applied energy is extremely dangerous and life threatingIt causes untold types of cancer/illness/carnage, esp, by hate groups!In those two questions posed by those couples about ultrasonic weapons, why did they recieve ignorant advise?
Do you have any sources for this fear-mongering you're promoting for ultrasonic weapons? I have a feeling it's going to be off some geocities website...In those two questions posed by those couples about ultrasonic weapons, why did they recieve ignorant advise?
I wouldn't worry about it. Ultrasonic weapons have yet to enter the inventory and are thus definitely not a problem.
I don't know a thing about ultrasonic weapons can you email me some good sources where I can learn about it? I really am curious to know.
Do you have any sources for this fear-mongering you're promoting for ultrasonic weapons? I have a feeling it's going to be off some geocities website...In those two questions posed by those couples about ultrasonic weapons, why did they recieve ignorant advise?
I wouldn't worry about it. Ultrasonic weapons have yet to enter the inventory and are thus definitely not a problem.
I don't know a thing about ultrasonic weapons can you email me some good sources where I can learn about it? I really am curious to know.
Is there a way to make Avatar couples.My Husband & I would like to share our picture?
The only way I kow of doing it, is to use photoshop.Is there a way to make Avatar couples.My Husband %26amp; I would like to share our picture?
hi ladybug-i have been trying to do this myself-still searching and if i find anything i will get back to you-if you do please get back to me as i want to put my better half up with me---smile and enjoy the night----i put this on my watch list so i can keep track---merry christmasface mask
hi ladybug-i have been trying to do this myself-still searching and if i find anything i will get back to you-if you do please get back to me as i want to put my better half up with me---smile and enjoy the night----i put this on my watch list so i can keep track---merry christmas
Is there any other couples that like the thought of playing strip poker with other couples ?
or maybe other adult games and also fun over webcam were 22 f 29 mIs there any other couples that like the thought of playing strip poker with other couples ?
The only penis %26amp; vagina I'm interested are MINE %26amp; MY HUSBAND'S. Everyone else can keep it in their pants. And HELL no I would not be on a webcam. That's so cheesy anyway. It's only fun for the couple that actually does it. Nobody else really wants to see it. They're never hot. Mostly pasty white %26amp; chubby. Eww.Is there any other couples that like the thought of playing strip poker with other couples ?
Playing games like this can be fun. A few drinking games can lead to some more adult fun. My wife and I have had some great times with some of our friends.
Enjoy it.
k
The odds are you'll be swinging before its' over.
I personally don't. But there are people who start off that way then end up being swingers.
Your in the wrong place here...try and adult webcam site.
Wow, how does the intimacy in YOUR marriage rank?
That was a joke btw.
Our friends are not that attractive!
No Thank You!
Errrr NO!
The only penis %26amp; vagina I'm interested are MINE %26amp; MY HUSBAND'S. Everyone else can keep it in their pants. And HELL no I would not be on a webcam. That's so cheesy anyway. It's only fun for the couple that actually does it. Nobody else really wants to see it. They're never hot. Mostly pasty white %26amp; chubby. Eww.Is there any other couples that like the thought of playing strip poker with other couples ?
Playing games like this can be fun. A few drinking games can lead to some more adult fun. My wife and I have had some great times with some of our friends.
Enjoy it.
k
The odds are you'll be swinging before its' over.
I personally don't. But there are people who start off that way then end up being swingers.
Your in the wrong place here...try and adult webcam site.
Wow, how does the intimacy in YOUR marriage rank?
That was a joke btw.
Our friends are not that attractive!
No Thank You!
Errrr NO!
Why is it that in general, military couples tend to get married and have kids very young?
like 18, 19, 20. I'm not saying all do this, but many do! I have friends who are children of people in the military and that's the case with them more often than not.Why is it that in general, military couples tend to get married and have kids very young?
Why not, what's wrong with it? It's been that way for centuries.Why is it that in general, military couples tend to get married and have kids very young?
I was in the AF for 8 years. I went in right out of high school I was only 17. It was my first time away from home and it was scary! I got married when I was 18. I was lonely and thought I could start my own family and I would be OK. Instead we ended up getting divorced 18 months latter. I really think this is the reason why military couples have such a high rate of divorce. They just get married to young. But I give props to those that manage to make it last!!
Because being in the military makes them be in dangerous places all the time so they want to have a family before they die or if they do. They don't want to leave their wives alone, i guess. But it would just cause more hurt. hmmm im not sure.
bc u never know when one of them is gonna die. n u get better benefits n housing
My husband is military and I am former military. We got married at 21. I think to answer your question you have to look at the difference in a civilian at 20 years old and a service member at 20 years old.
A normal civilian at age 20 is either in college or working their first serious job, or even still living with Mom %26amp; Dad. They probably are into the ';party'; scene, are somewhat immature, and not sure of what they want in life... and even if they know, they are not yet in a stable career, financially stable, or fully independent from Mom %26amp; Dad.
A military service member at age 20 probably entered the service at 18, and has cut the apron strings 2 years ago. The military has taught them to manage finances, they have lived alone, had huge responsibilies thrust at them, have a career promised to them for as long as they want it, and have many educational opportunities to better themselves and their careers. In short, they have been forced to ';enter the real world'; and grow up very quickly.
I think had I still been in college at 21, I would have still been going to frat parties and skipping classes and been in short term relationships. But instead, at 21, I had a serious career, grown-up responsibilities and I was more mature and ready for that next thing in my life. And our two kids quickly followed... I think that comes from the wife's desire for companionship all those days without her husband. At least that was the case for me. And we were definitely ready for the responsibility. Also, as a previous poster mentioned, pay increases and health care is provided.
At 20 I was marrying a military. Maybe we would of waited longer in a normal situation but he was being transferred 2000 miles away and girlfriends don`t get to follow only wives. We (the wives) have to quit our jobs, leave our family and friends behind and often we end up on remote bases alone all day long while hubby is working and making new buddies at work.....we have a lot of time on our hands to think about babies.
haha thats a good question. Im 19, and my fiance and I(who is in the army) are expecting our first child, but hes on deployment for the next year or so...our little boy will be 7 mos old when he gets back. We have different relationships than you regular people. Its the hardest type there is, they can be here one year, gone for the next 2, you never know when you will see them. We are ';intimate'; every chance we get. Not like civilian couples who see each other and sometimes dont even have time for sex or are tired of looking at each other. We treasure EVERY moment, and if kids are a product of that, then so be it! why do you care?
They do NOT realize the demands of the military before they do this or else they'd wait.
I think that there a few reasons why this happens.
Reason one: When a young person, man or woman, joins the military, they are thrown into adult situations that they may not have encountered before, most likely having a stable job, a paycheck that comes monthly/bimonthly regardless, and like most youngsters that go off to college, they are away from home probably for the first time and in their spare time are completely free to do whatever they choose with their money. Those young men and women that join the military now have not necessarily a TON of money to play around with, but they have a lot, and it gives them a sense that they are 'a real adult' and can do what real adults that have careers can do- anything from purchasing cars to staying out and racking up hundreds of dollars in bar bills and credit card bills. With that comes some possibly dumb decisions- having unprotected sex with other young people, whether townies, your high school sweetheart, college students, or other military members. And, now that one of you has a stable job and the military teaches you about honor and commitment, people who find themselves in the real situation of becoming pregnant now have a sense that they can not only handle a baby (because they are now an 'adult') but they can also provide, because they have that stable job, housing and medical care is provided. Also, when you're young and you're put into life and death situations, why wouldn't you want to have your love around you and provided for if something should happen? That's not to say that marriage isn't founded on love and the want to be with that person. But, if you're stationed in Japan, your girlfriend isn't going to be able to come with you. And, that happens- people get married to have each other around.
Reason Two (and probably the more likely of the two): People are stupid. Not that having a child is stupid, but because of all the reasons I've stated above, people feel at 18/19/20/21 that they are adults, they have a career, they have money, why the hell not get married? And then, some women are like, well now that I'm married, I don't have to prevent pregnancy anymore- and that is the truth. Men and women stop protecting themselves against pregnancy once they are married. To me, that's a dumb decision.
Maybe they feel secure with all the ready benefits they get.The travel is usually inevitable,so why wait on house,good schools,and a neighborhood.Gung Ho.
Its different when your in the military. I like to think of it as you are about 10 years ahead of your peers in terms of maturity and financial responsibilty. When you get married in the military you are automatically given a house on base or your pay is increased so you can afford a house off base. Also you get free health and dental insurance. Not to say it is easier but the military looks out for your familiy they try to take as much care of you as possible. Its alot harder for someone who is 18, 19 or 20 and they have to do worry about all the above things on their own.
Quite simple, as chaotic as Military life is and the fact that you usually are a long way from home you need stability. A wife and if you have kids provide atleast the illusion of stability. I was in the Navy when I married my wife, I was 20 she was 19, next month we celebrate our 13th wedding anniversary.
Good question!
My cousin is having his 3rd child and he is only 23 years old!
I think it is because they are away for so long that the couple's passion gets stored up and they do nothing but make love when they are together.
Plus, guys/girls in the military seem to possess a maturity that most younger people lack! That makes them more able to accept major responsibility!
because your girlfriend can't transfer with you, but your wife can. plus you get paid more if you have dependants via housing, health benefits etc...
Why not, what's wrong with it? It's been that way for centuries.Why is it that in general, military couples tend to get married and have kids very young?
I was in the AF for 8 years. I went in right out of high school I was only 17. It was my first time away from home and it was scary! I got married when I was 18. I was lonely and thought I could start my own family and I would be OK. Instead we ended up getting divorced 18 months latter. I really think this is the reason why military couples have such a high rate of divorce. They just get married to young. But I give props to those that manage to make it last!!
Because being in the military makes them be in dangerous places all the time so they want to have a family before they die or if they do. They don't want to leave their wives alone, i guess. But it would just cause more hurt. hmmm im not sure.
bc u never know when one of them is gonna die. n u get better benefits n housing
My husband is military and I am former military. We got married at 21. I think to answer your question you have to look at the difference in a civilian at 20 years old and a service member at 20 years old.
A normal civilian at age 20 is either in college or working their first serious job, or even still living with Mom %26amp; Dad. They probably are into the ';party'; scene, are somewhat immature, and not sure of what they want in life... and even if they know, they are not yet in a stable career, financially stable, or fully independent from Mom %26amp; Dad.
A military service member at age 20 probably entered the service at 18, and has cut the apron strings 2 years ago. The military has taught them to manage finances, they have lived alone, had huge responsibilies thrust at them, have a career promised to them for as long as they want it, and have many educational opportunities to better themselves and their careers. In short, they have been forced to ';enter the real world'; and grow up very quickly.
I think had I still been in college at 21, I would have still been going to frat parties and skipping classes and been in short term relationships. But instead, at 21, I had a serious career, grown-up responsibilities and I was more mature and ready for that next thing in my life. And our two kids quickly followed... I think that comes from the wife's desire for companionship all those days without her husband. At least that was the case for me. And we were definitely ready for the responsibility. Also, as a previous poster mentioned, pay increases and health care is provided.
At 20 I was marrying a military. Maybe we would of waited longer in a normal situation but he was being transferred 2000 miles away and girlfriends don`t get to follow only wives. We (the wives) have to quit our jobs, leave our family and friends behind and often we end up on remote bases alone all day long while hubby is working and making new buddies at work.....we have a lot of time on our hands to think about babies.
haha thats a good question. Im 19, and my fiance and I(who is in the army) are expecting our first child, but hes on deployment for the next year or so...our little boy will be 7 mos old when he gets back. We have different relationships than you regular people. Its the hardest type there is, they can be here one year, gone for the next 2, you never know when you will see them. We are ';intimate'; every chance we get. Not like civilian couples who see each other and sometimes dont even have time for sex or are tired of looking at each other. We treasure EVERY moment, and if kids are a product of that, then so be it! why do you care?
They do NOT realize the demands of the military before they do this or else they'd wait.
I think that there a few reasons why this happens.
Reason one: When a young person, man or woman, joins the military, they are thrown into adult situations that they may not have encountered before, most likely having a stable job, a paycheck that comes monthly/bimonthly regardless, and like most youngsters that go off to college, they are away from home probably for the first time and in their spare time are completely free to do whatever they choose with their money. Those young men and women that join the military now have not necessarily a TON of money to play around with, but they have a lot, and it gives them a sense that they are 'a real adult' and can do what real adults that have careers can do- anything from purchasing cars to staying out and racking up hundreds of dollars in bar bills and credit card bills. With that comes some possibly dumb decisions- having unprotected sex with other young people, whether townies, your high school sweetheart, college students, or other military members. And, now that one of you has a stable job and the military teaches you about honor and commitment, people who find themselves in the real situation of becoming pregnant now have a sense that they can not only handle a baby (because they are now an 'adult') but they can also provide, because they have that stable job, housing and medical care is provided. Also, when you're young and you're put into life and death situations, why wouldn't you want to have your love around you and provided for if something should happen? That's not to say that marriage isn't founded on love and the want to be with that person. But, if you're stationed in Japan, your girlfriend isn't going to be able to come with you. And, that happens- people get married to have each other around.
Reason Two (and probably the more likely of the two): People are stupid. Not that having a child is stupid, but because of all the reasons I've stated above, people feel at 18/19/20/21 that they are adults, they have a career, they have money, why the hell not get married? And then, some women are like, well now that I'm married, I don't have to prevent pregnancy anymore- and that is the truth. Men and women stop protecting themselves against pregnancy once they are married. To me, that's a dumb decision.
Maybe they feel secure with all the ready benefits they get.The travel is usually inevitable,so why wait on house,good schools,and a neighborhood.Gung Ho.
Its different when your in the military. I like to think of it as you are about 10 years ahead of your peers in terms of maturity and financial responsibilty. When you get married in the military you are automatically given a house on base or your pay is increased so you can afford a house off base. Also you get free health and dental insurance. Not to say it is easier but the military looks out for your familiy they try to take as much care of you as possible. Its alot harder for someone who is 18, 19 or 20 and they have to do worry about all the above things on their own.
Quite simple, as chaotic as Military life is and the fact that you usually are a long way from home you need stability. A wife and if you have kids provide atleast the illusion of stability. I was in the Navy when I married my wife, I was 20 she was 19, next month we celebrate our 13th wedding anniversary.
Good question!
My cousin is having his 3rd child and he is only 23 years old!
I think it is because they are away for so long that the couple's passion gets stored up and they do nothing but make love when they are together.
Plus, guys/girls in the military seem to possess a maturity that most younger people lack! That makes them more able to accept major responsibility!
because your girlfriend can't transfer with you, but your wife can. plus you get paid more if you have dependants via housing, health benefits etc...
I think it is good that unmarried couples are going to get the same rights as?
Married. as there are thousands of children living with unmarried parents, and while the women is usually the lower paid one. If the partner takes of with some young flousie then he still has to maintain the children and the home, if he wants to take on expenses for 2 or more families more fool him.? what do you think?I think it is good that unmarried couples are going to get the same rights as?
I think because of the social climate of our times it is only right. Marriage is on a downward spiral, the children and ';family'; should be protected despite the parents marital status.I think it is good that unmarried couples are going to get the same rights as?
If court settlements after breakups are handled the same way for those who were legally married and for those who lived together, then, people would be more careful about all their choices. It isn't the paper that makes a marriage but commitment. Those that don't marry won't have such an easy out. And, I think that's good. C. :)!!
i think that unfortunately people dont get married anymore because it is to much responsibility and this law just makes it easier not to get married so i disagree that it is good. it is avery bad thing as i think when you are married you are more stable and work at things more, if you argue you forgive, unlike if you are just partners you just give up, please what is wrong with people nower days they are so easy to give up and want all the benifits for doing nothing
Just imagine being single and had worked to build up your own business, say it's worth hundreds of thousands, would you let your partner move in?
How could you take the the risk that 5 years down the line you split and they want a third or half of the company and your money?
It would mean a massive court battle and even though they might not win that amount in full your still going to be spending mon ths and a small fortune to fight the claim.
You can look on marraige as a religious, spiritual and romantic thing but let's just deal with it from the legal point of view in that you have a choice.
You can get legally married, decide to share all your wealth, home, business or you don't and then you both have the choice to keep everything separate.
Giving everyone the same rights takes away that choice, you can't keep your business or treasured possessions safe from gold diggers, i would be very worried about being single if this happens.
Forgetting children, forgetting families, forget all that, there has to be a legal way to protect what is yours, what you have worked for when you enter a relationship and we have that now, the choice of not getting married.
If you want the benefits of marriage get married. It's that simple.
i dont agree...at all
I think its great too
yeah but what about all the gold digging money grabing *****'s out there that will be with me just for the lolly.................???
and there is some out there trust me
yes it is # it shows that soociety is accpting peoples rights more and more
The institution of Marriage is important. Our society has changed the way people look at marriage. Divorce is on the rise and there are many children living in a broken home. Family values are not the same as they were years ago. Marriage protccts the family values as long as you know the rules. There are different situations that cause divorce and I am not toatally against them. There are not any situations that two people should not have a legal paper that gives them their rights on who gets what and how to split things. Pre Nup... that is the answer. If you love someone enough to marry them you should trust them in what they want. Everyone must now protect themselves in the event of a break up. The children suffer the most. Their standard of living is taken away and there is nothing they can do about it.
If you are unmarried and never were then the rights should not be the same. If you were married and divorced the rights should be.
Bottom line marriage is the key to your rights.
I doubt any of this made sense on paper but in my head I know what I wanted to say....
Think it's been along time coming but it's absolutely right.
Shame so many women in the past have had to lose out cos they've had no rights.
In my country, if you have been living in a defacto relationship for 3 years then you have the same rights in law as though you were married. Doesn't seem to have caused any major problems..
I am with alphacenturi - he has a really good point. By the way, don't forget it works both ways, in my view, if the woman runs off with another man - why should she get any money. Money for the kids yes but not for her - she can get a job an pay her own way. Sometimes, a man would prefer to take on two expenses then stay with a woman he doesn not want to be with.
I think because of the social climate of our times it is only right. Marriage is on a downward spiral, the children and ';family'; should be protected despite the parents marital status.I think it is good that unmarried couples are going to get the same rights as?
If court settlements after breakups are handled the same way for those who were legally married and for those who lived together, then, people would be more careful about all their choices. It isn't the paper that makes a marriage but commitment. Those that don't marry won't have such an easy out. And, I think that's good. C. :)!!
i think that unfortunately people dont get married anymore because it is to much responsibility and this law just makes it easier not to get married so i disagree that it is good. it is avery bad thing as i think when you are married you are more stable and work at things more, if you argue you forgive, unlike if you are just partners you just give up, please what is wrong with people nower days they are so easy to give up and want all the benifits for doing nothing
Just imagine being single and had worked to build up your own business, say it's worth hundreds of thousands, would you let your partner move in?
How could you take the the risk that 5 years down the line you split and they want a third or half of the company and your money?
It would mean a massive court battle and even though they might not win that amount in full your still going to be spending mon ths and a small fortune to fight the claim.
You can look on marraige as a religious, spiritual and romantic thing but let's just deal with it from the legal point of view in that you have a choice.
You can get legally married, decide to share all your wealth, home, business or you don't and then you both have the choice to keep everything separate.
Giving everyone the same rights takes away that choice, you can't keep your business or treasured possessions safe from gold diggers, i would be very worried about being single if this happens.
Forgetting children, forgetting families, forget all that, there has to be a legal way to protect what is yours, what you have worked for when you enter a relationship and we have that now, the choice of not getting married.
If you want the benefits of marriage get married. It's that simple.
i dont agree...at all
I think its great too
yeah but what about all the gold digging money grabing *****'s out there that will be with me just for the lolly.................???
and there is some out there trust me
yes it is # it shows that soociety is accpting peoples rights more and more
The institution of Marriage is important. Our society has changed the way people look at marriage. Divorce is on the rise and there are many children living in a broken home. Family values are not the same as they were years ago. Marriage protccts the family values as long as you know the rules. There are different situations that cause divorce and I am not toatally against them. There are not any situations that two people should not have a legal paper that gives them their rights on who gets what and how to split things. Pre Nup... that is the answer. If you love someone enough to marry them you should trust them in what they want. Everyone must now protect themselves in the event of a break up. The children suffer the most. Their standard of living is taken away and there is nothing they can do about it.
If you are unmarried and never were then the rights should not be the same. If you were married and divorced the rights should be.
Bottom line marriage is the key to your rights.
I doubt any of this made sense on paper but in my head I know what I wanted to say....
Think it's been along time coming but it's absolutely right.
Shame so many women in the past have had to lose out cos they've had no rights.
In my country, if you have been living in a defacto relationship for 3 years then you have the same rights in law as though you were married. Doesn't seem to have caused any major problems..
I am with alphacenturi - he has a really good point. By the way, don't forget it works both ways, in my view, if the woman runs off with another man - why should she get any money. Money for the kids yes but not for her - she can get a job an pay her own way. Sometimes, a man would prefer to take on two expenses then stay with a woman he doesn not want to be with.
In those two questions posed by those couples about ultrasonic weapons, why did they recieve ignorant advise?
the advise given by those 4 or 5 people was insulting/ignorant/ and may have shown how foolish and devoid of intelligence they are. Ultrasonic weapons and applied energy is extremely dangerous and life threatingIt causes untold types of cancer/illness/carnage, esp, by hate groups!In those two questions posed by those couples about ultrasonic weapons, why did they recieve ignorant advise?
Do you have any sources for this fear-mongering you're promoting for ultrasonic weapons? I have a feeling it's going to be off some geocities website...In those two questions posed by those couples about ultrasonic weapons, why did they recieve ignorant advise?
I wouldn't worry about it. Ultrasonic weapons have yet to enter the inventory and are thus definitely not a problem.
I don't know a thing about ultrasonic weapons can you email me some good sources where I can learn about it? I really am curious to know.
Do you have any sources for this fear-mongering you're promoting for ultrasonic weapons? I have a feeling it's going to be off some geocities website...In those two questions posed by those couples about ultrasonic weapons, why did they recieve ignorant advise?
I wouldn't worry about it. Ultrasonic weapons have yet to enter the inventory and are thus definitely not a problem.
I don't know a thing about ultrasonic weapons can you email me some good sources where I can learn about it? I really am curious to know.
Is there a way to make Avatar couples.My Husband & I would like to share our picture?
The only way I kow of doing it, is to use photoshop.Is there a way to make Avatar couples.My Husband %26amp; I would like to share our picture?
hi ladybug-i have been trying to do this myself-still searching and if i find anything i will get back to you-if you do please get back to me as i want to put my better half up with me---smile and enjoy the night----i put this on my watch list so i can keep track---merry christmas
hi ladybug-i have been trying to do this myself-still searching and if i find anything i will get back to you-if you do please get back to me as i want to put my better half up with me---smile and enjoy the night----i put this on my watch list so i can keep track---merry christmas
What is there to do for married couples in clarksville, tn and surrounding area?
well there isnn't much to do there but sneak into crossville and there is all kinds of good stuff to do in that town. i love that place that is my home town. if u dont have fun let me know.What is there to do for married couples in clarksville, tn and surrounding area?
not much of anything go to nashville there is more to do there.My cousin lives there too and I have been there several times and there isnt much to do. I suggest going to nashville.What is there to do for married couples in clarksville, tn and surrounding area?
I used to live in Clarksville.....husband was staitioned at Fort Campbell......there is only things for the soldiars to do there....strip clubs, bars, etc.
If you want something to do....drive the 50+ miles to Nashville....LOTS to do there.face mask
not much of anything go to nashville there is more to do there.My cousin lives there too and I have been there several times and there isnt much to do. I suggest going to nashville.What is there to do for married couples in clarksville, tn and surrounding area?
I used to live in Clarksville.....husband was staitioned at Fort Campbell......there is only things for the soldiars to do there....strip clubs, bars, etc.
If you want something to do....drive the 50+ miles to Nashville....LOTS to do there.
Couples with kids - how do you decide not to have any more children?
My dh and I have two children and are both happy but not convinced we don't want anymore. However, I can't imagine planning to have another one anytime soon. BUT, not ready to go the extra step (vasectemy or tubal) and say FOR SURE no more. How do couples make that decision?Couples with kids - how do you decide not to have any more children?
I came to the conclusion like this:
I made a list of things I wanted to accomplish in life, numbered them by importance to me, and crossed them off the list again when I realized I could not do them if I had more babies.
From there on it was easy. I have two boys (25 %26amp; 11), a good marriage, and good income.
I decided my body was mine again and that I did not want anymore babies. My husband accepted my decision without gripe. He told me whatever I decided was fine him as he did not have to volunteer his body for a pregnancy.
Right after I had my 2nd. child I made it final and I have never regretted it.Couples with kids - how do you decide not to have any more children?
if your hands are too full now, and you feel like you dont have the energy to raise another... or you are just content where you or at, when you know, you know... you might want to look into it, but I heard that vasectomies can be undone (though it is expensive) if you dont want to take that route, try birth control pills, or something to prevent another lil surprise!
Uh, I have 3 and I'm still not sure. I guess once you start having kids, that's always on your heartstrings...even if you know it's not timely or can't afford to. Only you can answer that :)
The bottom line is to have only the number of children you can mentally, physically and financially afford. Children are precious gifts, we should not have them simply because we can. I have a student whose mother just had her sixth kid, he's on free lunch and this parents are making more kids, Go figure.
I came to the conclusion like this:
I made a list of things I wanted to accomplish in life, numbered them by importance to me, and crossed them off the list again when I realized I could not do them if I had more babies.
From there on it was easy. I have two boys (25 %26amp; 11), a good marriage, and good income.
I decided my body was mine again and that I did not want anymore babies. My husband accepted my decision without gripe. He told me whatever I decided was fine him as he did not have to volunteer his body for a pregnancy.
Right after I had my 2nd. child I made it final and I have never regretted it.Couples with kids - how do you decide not to have any more children?
if your hands are too full now, and you feel like you dont have the energy to raise another... or you are just content where you or at, when you know, you know... you might want to look into it, but I heard that vasectomies can be undone (though it is expensive) if you dont want to take that route, try birth control pills, or something to prevent another lil surprise!
Uh, I have 3 and I'm still not sure. I guess once you start having kids, that's always on your heartstrings...even if you know it's not timely or can't afford to. Only you can answer that :)
The bottom line is to have only the number of children you can mentally, physically and financially afford. Children are precious gifts, we should not have them simply because we can. I have a student whose mother just had her sixth kid, he's on free lunch and this parents are making more kids, Go figure.
Couples willing to be committed without marriage?
My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile and have discussed the views on this topic many times. We are both in agreement that we do not feel the need to be married to have a committed relationship. We both have friends that are married and very not happy in the current relationship and we do not want to be like them or become another statistic.
I have talked to others regarding our decision and most do not understand our views on not wanting to be married. I just wanted to know if anyone else knows of couples that are doing this and how well it is working for them. We are happy with our decision about our future...just wanted some views and opinions from other readers to see how they feel. Good or bad points welcomed.Couples willing to be committed without marriage?
If this okay for you, then God bless your decision.
You don't need anyone else's approval to marry or to keep things as they are.
I have talked to others regarding our decision and most do not understand our views on not wanting to be married. I just wanted to know if anyone else knows of couples that are doing this and how well it is working for them. We are happy with our decision about our future...just wanted some views and opinions from other readers to see how they feel. Good or bad points welcomed.Couples willing to be committed without marriage?
If this okay for you, then God bless your decision.
You don't need anyone else's approval to marry or to keep things as they are.
At what age bracket does marriage separation occur most. A very important information for young couples.?
How many young couples got married because they said that they love each other. What are the effects on their young life in having this kind of relationship. How this relationship will affect their families, and friends.At what age bracket does marriage separation occur most. A very important information for young couples.?
i didnt love him, i just wanted to trick him!At what age bracket does marriage separation occur most. A very important information for young couples.?
age is not as relevant as is premarital sex.. couples that have had premarital sex have a much higher rate of divorce than those who did not have sex prior to marriage and age doesn't seem to be a factor. other things that effect marriages are financial and dysfunctional roles.. for example a husband and wife both work and have separate accounts. that causes a dysfunction in the family unit.. its one family and the man should be the head of the house, and the woman should be taking care of the house and the children.. being a mother and home maker should be her primary role if she is married.. those traditional type of marriages usually last until one partner dies.
I think if people marry young, they tend to have second thoughs on their marriage when they are 25-27. Especially women. It may be not true, but it is my personal observation.
From my observation between 30 and 40 is where I've seen the most divorces.
Seven month..
or seven year itch come to mind.
Read you later.
i didnt love him, i just wanted to trick him!At what age bracket does marriage separation occur most. A very important information for young couples.?
age is not as relevant as is premarital sex.. couples that have had premarital sex have a much higher rate of divorce than those who did not have sex prior to marriage and age doesn't seem to be a factor. other things that effect marriages are financial and dysfunctional roles.. for example a husband and wife both work and have separate accounts. that causes a dysfunction in the family unit.. its one family and the man should be the head of the house, and the woman should be taking care of the house and the children.. being a mother and home maker should be her primary role if she is married.. those traditional type of marriages usually last until one partner dies.
I think if people marry young, they tend to have second thoughs on their marriage when they are 25-27. Especially women. It may be not true, but it is my personal observation.
From my observation between 30 and 40 is where I've seen the most divorces.
Seven month..
or seven year itch come to mind.
Read you later.
Whats the best vibrator and porno for couples?
just wanna try something new.i have a few vibs but they are too strong,and the movies are just boring.what are some good ones.Whats the best vibrator and porno for couples?
Is your marriage that weak that you have to resort to those kind of toys and tricks?Whats the best vibrator and porno for couples?
My wife like ';Rabbit Pearl'; see it here: http://www.mypleasure.com/Sex-Toy-Rabbit鈥?/a>
I think the movie she likes the most is one called ';A Lighter Side of Heather';
vibrator are like men...you need variety. get the one that plugs in as who wants the batteries to fail at the wrong time? its just like having a guy who can't control himself.
get the batteries with the bunny that keeps going and going and going..lol...
My wife and I use the double bullet. It's made by California Exotic Novelties. Fun stuff!!! Don't do the movie thing though. She's not up on that. But, that's cool. We've got kids, and I wouldn't want them finding that crap in the house anyway. hehe
Adjustable Pocket Rocket
Any of the movies in the ';Gangbang Girls'; series.
Whatever feels best to you and what the 2 of you can relate to.
There is no best answer for this. Go to your local shop and just try different ones.
For vibrators go to www.goodvibrations.com
As for porno, everyone has their own taste. Yours probably will be different from your partners. Best advice - some of what he likes, some of what you like, and some of what you both agree on. Don't make him feel like a pervert if you don't really like his stuff and he won't make you feel lame for what you like. Being open and honest about what you like is the only way to truly get where you want to go.
';Too strong?'; Most of the complaints are usually that they're too wimpy.
The two biggest selling sex devices are the Hitachi Magic Wand and the Eroscillator. My wife has the latter and just loves it. There are three speeds, it doesn't take batteries, and it doesn't actually ';vibrate;'; it moves back and forth like the head of an electric toothbrush. Very quality made. Not a junky toy.
Videos? There's no accounting for taste, but check out director Candida Royale or Andrew Blake. Very high quality erotica from these people.
A blowfly in a beer bottle
You want to tryy something new? Then come to papa baby!
Is your marriage that weak that you have to resort to those kind of toys and tricks?Whats the best vibrator and porno for couples?
My wife like ';Rabbit Pearl'; see it here: http://www.mypleasure.com/Sex-Toy-Rabbit鈥?/a>
I think the movie she likes the most is one called ';A Lighter Side of Heather';
vibrator are like men...you need variety. get the one that plugs in as who wants the batteries to fail at the wrong time? its just like having a guy who can't control himself.
get the batteries with the bunny that keeps going and going and going..lol...
My wife and I use the double bullet. It's made by California Exotic Novelties. Fun stuff!!! Don't do the movie thing though. She's not up on that. But, that's cool. We've got kids, and I wouldn't want them finding that crap in the house anyway. hehe
Adjustable Pocket Rocket
Any of the movies in the ';Gangbang Girls'; series.
Whatever feels best to you and what the 2 of you can relate to.
There is no best answer for this. Go to your local shop and just try different ones.
For vibrators go to www.goodvibrations.com
As for porno, everyone has their own taste. Yours probably will be different from your partners. Best advice - some of what he likes, some of what you like, and some of what you both agree on. Don't make him feel like a pervert if you don't really like his stuff and he won't make you feel lame for what you like. Being open and honest about what you like is the only way to truly get where you want to go.
';Too strong?'; Most of the complaints are usually that they're too wimpy.
The two biggest selling sex devices are the Hitachi Magic Wand and the Eroscillator. My wife has the latter and just loves it. There are three speeds, it doesn't take batteries, and it doesn't actually ';vibrate;'; it moves back and forth like the head of an electric toothbrush. Very quality made. Not a junky toy.
Videos? There's no accounting for taste, but check out director Candida Royale or Andrew Blake. Very high quality erotica from these people.
A blowfly in a beer bottle
You want to tryy something new? Then come to papa baby!
Couples who attend church - how do you decide how much time and money to give to your church?
Is time spend volunteering at church more important than time spent on/with your kids. Does tithing come before bills are paid? Any disagreements in your household about this?Couples who attend church - how do you decide how much time and money to give to your church?
Family time trumps church time everytime. As much as service is important, it should never be at the neglect of the family. If a man cannot take care of his family, he has no business taking care of anything else.
The tithe belongs to the Lord. We make sure it comes out first. We have never seen that it made a difference in how our bills get paid and trust me - we have hit it quite close and have had our share of tough times. We have tithed for years and the bills have gotten paid. If there were some bills we could not pay, keeping the tithe would not have made much of a difference, anyway. So, we continue to tithe.
My wife and I make sure that we are in agreement with anything concerning finances and the family. If we are not in agreement concerning anything, we either come to a common ground or pray about it and see what the Lord has to say.Couples who attend church - how do you decide how much time and money to give to your church?
I base my donation on how good the singing is.
Tithing is one of the greatest deceptions that has been perpetrated on Christians by many churches.
A tithe was a tenth of the increase of produce and livestock only. Wage earners did not pay tithes.
So all these churches are perverting the word of God.
Christians were never a party to the old covenant, where tithing is commanded. Christians are both dead to the law, and dead to sin.
The ministry was to be supported by free will offerings. But they didn't have enough faith in God for God to provide for them through the free-will offerings of Christians, so they teach tithing, and insist it is a violation of faith to not tithe.
Talk about hypocrisy...
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it's a
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don't buy into it
give to waiters %26amp; waitress'
they need it
In essence there is no requirement for Christians to tithe. At no time were first-century Christians commanded to pay tithes. The Old Testament established a principle for OT times - not for NT times.The primary purpose of the tithing arrangement under the Law had been to support Israel's temple and priesthood; consequently the obligation to pay tithes ceased when that Mosaic Law covenant came to an end as fulfilled through Christ's death. Levitical priests continued serving at the temple in Jerusalem until it was destroyed in 70 C.E., but Christians from and after 33 C.E. became part of a new spiritual priesthood that was not supported by tithes. The matter is summed up in 2 Corinthians 9:7; ' ... each one must do just as he has purposed in his heart, not grudgingly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
NOTE - 'giving' not 'tithing'.
IT is easy for us we always pay ten percent of what we make and yes even when bills are hard on us. we know that we will blessed more then we gave just by giving what we did. we dont disagree. and volunteering doesnt have to take time away from your time with the kids, involve them and they will grow up to respect and help others just like you do, be an example.
my children attend the parish school, so I consider it an investment in their future.
no disagreements - we both realize it's necessary to be involved.
Family time trumps church time everytime. As much as service is important, it should never be at the neglect of the family. If a man cannot take care of his family, he has no business taking care of anything else.
The tithe belongs to the Lord. We make sure it comes out first. We have never seen that it made a difference in how our bills get paid and trust me - we have hit it quite close and have had our share of tough times. We have tithed for years and the bills have gotten paid. If there were some bills we could not pay, keeping the tithe would not have made much of a difference, anyway. So, we continue to tithe.
My wife and I make sure that we are in agreement with anything concerning finances and the family. If we are not in agreement concerning anything, we either come to a common ground or pray about it and see what the Lord has to say.Couples who attend church - how do you decide how much time and money to give to your church?
I base my donation on how good the singing is.
Tithing is one of the greatest deceptions that has been perpetrated on Christians by many churches.
A tithe was a tenth of the increase of produce and livestock only. Wage earners did not pay tithes.
So all these churches are perverting the word of God.
Christians were never a party to the old covenant, where tithing is commanded. Christians are both dead to the law, and dead to sin.
The ministry was to be supported by free will offerings. But they didn't have enough faith in God for God to provide for them through the free-will offerings of Christians, so they teach tithing, and insist it is a violation of faith to not tithe.
Talk about hypocrisy...
.
it's a
2000
year old
SCAM
don't buy into it
give to waiters %26amp; waitress'
they need it
In essence there is no requirement for Christians to tithe. At no time were first-century Christians commanded to pay tithes. The Old Testament established a principle for OT times - not for NT times.The primary purpose of the tithing arrangement under the Law had been to support Israel's temple and priesthood; consequently the obligation to pay tithes ceased when that Mosaic Law covenant came to an end as fulfilled through Christ's death. Levitical priests continued serving at the temple in Jerusalem until it was destroyed in 70 C.E., but Christians from and after 33 C.E. became part of a new spiritual priesthood that was not supported by tithes. The matter is summed up in 2 Corinthians 9:7; ' ... each one must do just as he has purposed in his heart, not grudgingly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
NOTE - 'giving' not 'tithing'.
IT is easy for us we always pay ten percent of what we make and yes even when bills are hard on us. we know that we will blessed more then we gave just by giving what we did. we dont disagree. and volunteering doesnt have to take time away from your time with the kids, involve them and they will grow up to respect and help others just like you do, be an example.
my children attend the parish school, so I consider it an investment in their future.
no disagreements - we both realize it's necessary to be involved.
Couples question, Do you have different tastes in Music?
What if your driving together in the car, what happens then?Couples question, Do you have different tastes in Music?
I'm more into R%26amp;B hip-hop, sometimes pop, sometimes rock. He's really into rock/classic rock and metal. We are always changing the radio stations back and forth. I almost always win!Couples question, Do you have different tastes in Music?
We have almost a similar taste. My hubby likes to listen to some music that I don't like and vice versa. We never fight though, and some time we listen to one song that he likes and perhaps another one that I like and so on.
lol yea me and him have different taste. we take turns, i cheat a little though but he lets me. I know that i listen to most of the music i want so when i realize that i let him play for a while too.
Sometimes, he's more into the seventies, I'm an eighties/nineties girl. No, I don't fight. He gets to listen for a while. I get to change it ever so often.
We can normally agree on something.
His tastes are more harsh though, Like metal and industrial.
Wheres i normally listen to darkwave stuff.
He knows the radio is mine though. No touchy.
Not really we pretty much agree with everything from music to other things.face mask
I'm more into R%26amp;B hip-hop, sometimes pop, sometimes rock. He's really into rock/classic rock and metal. We are always changing the radio stations back and forth. I almost always win!Couples question, Do you have different tastes in Music?
We have almost a similar taste. My hubby likes to listen to some music that I don't like and vice versa. We never fight though, and some time we listen to one song that he likes and perhaps another one that I like and so on.
lol yea me and him have different taste. we take turns, i cheat a little though but he lets me. I know that i listen to most of the music i want so when i realize that i let him play for a while too.
Sometimes, he's more into the seventies, I'm an eighties/nineties girl. No, I don't fight. He gets to listen for a while. I get to change it ever so often.
We can normally agree on something.
His tastes are more harsh though, Like metal and industrial.
Wheres i normally listen to darkwave stuff.
He knows the radio is mine though. No touchy.
Not really we pretty much agree with everything from music to other things.
Couples do u find ur relationship better when u two are living together or seperate?
do things change when u live together? if so, does it change for better or for worseCouples do u find ur relationship better when u two are living together or seperate?
depends on the sitiuation how long u guys been together? and so on i moved in with my boyfriend at age 16 and weve been together since.... im ninteen and things are fine! sometimes i feel like i need a break but one day away from him and i miss him...lol so too answer your question it got better we got a lot closer!Couples do u find ur relationship better when u two are living together or seperate?
I've never lived together with someone but to tell you the truth it almost scares the **** out of me, falling into this daily routine even if you are happy with it it just for now atleast feels alot more comfortable to see eachother a little less but with alot more quality.
Probably just to young to see the charm in it =)
well it depends. Ive been goin out with my boyfriend for 2 years. we been livin together for 1 year and 9 months. everything is great with us. we get annoyed at eachother sometimes but if ya find your own space and not up eachothers *** all the time itll work out
depends on the sitiuation how long u guys been together? and so on i moved in with my boyfriend at age 16 and weve been together since.... im ninteen and things are fine! sometimes i feel like i need a break but one day away from him and i miss him...lol so too answer your question it got better we got a lot closer!Couples do u find ur relationship better when u two are living together or seperate?
I've never lived together with someone but to tell you the truth it almost scares the **** out of me, falling into this daily routine even if you are happy with it it just for now atleast feels alot more comfortable to see eachother a little less but with alot more quality.
Probably just to young to see the charm in it =)
well it depends. Ive been goin out with my boyfriend for 2 years. we been livin together for 1 year and 9 months. everything is great with us. we get annoyed at eachother sometimes but if ya find your own space and not up eachothers *** all the time itll work out
What i'll do?We're 3 couples and we plan to go to my bf's lake house?
for 2 days.I date my bf for 2 months and he's really nice guy but lately i started feeling a little jealous(without any reason).The thing is that the gf of his friend is very hot and this makes me a bit down.I'm ok but not in her level.How i can deal with this?What i'll do?We're 3 couples and we plan to go to my bf's lake house?
You have to remember that he chose to ask you out, not her. She might be hot, but she might be otherwise annoying and he might think you are the cutest, coolest chick in the world...so don't blow it by being jealous and bitchy. There is always going to be someone out there who is a bit hotter than you...you just have to develop self-confidence and walk around like YOU are the hottest.
You have to remember that he chose to ask you out, not her. She might be hot, but she might be otherwise annoying and he might think you are the cutest, coolest chick in the world...so don't blow it by being jealous and bitchy. There is always going to be someone out there who is a bit hotter than you...you just have to develop self-confidence and walk around like YOU are the hottest.
A question about long term same sex couples.?
If you share a home with someone do you divide the cloths?
Having different draws and cupboards for both of you, or seeing as you are the same sex just throw it all in together and share it?
Assuming of course you are both relatively the same height and weight.A question about long term same sex couples.?
uh.. my cloths are mine.. and hers are hers? same with a straight couple..A question about long term same sex couples.?
Just like any family we have our own drawers and closet space, our own shoes, boots, slippers, tooth brushes, combs, etc.
We are about the same height and weight, but we have different taste's in cloths like anyone. We do dress differently, even our best cloths are not quite the same, so we know who's is who's, except maybe for socks and underwear, but then we have our own laundry bags and do our laundry separately when it comes to whites, but our darks as they are not the same are done together.
At times we may borrow the others cloths, but only because we know each others hygiene and look after each other, even the odd time borrowing under wear or socks . . . again we know each others hygiene and we wear our socks and undergarments only once then in the laundry they go. Same as t-shirts and shirts.
We each have our own drawers and wardrobes, and tend not to share clothes as a rule, mainly because our taste in clothes is different. He is extremely fashion conscious, and tends to go for the scruffy casual look, and I could never get away with it, or feel comfortable dressed that way. He pulls it off very well though.
I think that if couples started sharing clothes too much, they would start looking very alike, which would be weird. Everyone needs their own identity, especially from their own partner!
Having said all that, we have been known to borrow formal shirts / ties / belts etc from each other in an emergency. But that's as far as it goes. Sharing underwear might be a fantasy, but some fantasies were never meant to be lived out ;-)
Me and my partner are both the same height and weight and yes we do share the same clothes at times but my lover does not like my taste in clothes though ( im a skateboarder and i dress the part ) and he is allot older then i am so he wears diffrent types of clothes i would never wear..The only thing that is really off limits to him is some of my more expensive shoes and thats it really...
It doesn't matter if I'm dating a guy or a girl. My clothes are mine, their clothes are theirs. Of course if my girl asked to borrow something of mine I'd probably let her, but that doesn't mean we're just gonna throw all out clothes in the same drawer. Can you imagine how chaotic finding an outfit of your own would be in the morning?
lol, we share clothes now. we're about the same size, she's a bit taller though, so my jeans are short on her and her's are long on me, but i don't mind, and she doen'st either cause she steals my shirts more than anything cause she has a lot more clothes than i do. ^_^ but we don't live together or anything. when we do we might share. i dunno. never really thought about it. her boobs are bigger, so i can't wear some of her nicer tops cause they're noticeably stretched out on me, i have tiny boobs compared to her. lmao.
Gwenneth and I each had a wardrobe and a cupboard. We were nearly the same height. Gwen 6' 2', Myself. 6' or close enough. Similar builds so we could borrow if necessary. She had some lovely clothes but after her death I just could not wear them, just take them out and hold them.
Rose P.
Some clothes we share, some we don't. My partner has quite a wacky taste in clothes vs my conservative! Things like underwear and socks - nope never share, I love him, but not that much! Besides if I wear his really nice clothes I always get told off for stretching the cut of the cloth! Do you think he's trying to tell me something?
we have different draws and cuboards for everything. i do pinch jackets to keep warm. mens jackets are so much bigger and warmer to wear.
dunno, but im way too tall for the guy i want to share clothes with, and i think same as any married couple you share everything else.
Which cloths? Washcloths? ';Feminine hygiene'; cloths? You have different draws - like one of you draws flowers the other one draws people?
Different drawers but it doesn't matter if they borrow anything.
It's just nice to be individual!
If he wore the same size, I would so borrow his clothes.
I love wearing stuff just once!
The guy I'm dating I already borrow his boxers to sleep
@Waggy: You just gave me a b0ner!
The same as you would sharing a house with anyone else! Have different wardrobes and stuff; borrow clothes if you want. Its not that complicated!
Our clothes are our own. We have different tastes and styles; and no way would I ever share socks or underwear with anyone.
I stand with Vanessa. Keep your draws in your own draws and I'll do the same.
I think, we would share drawers but probably not clothes. But there would be no harm in sharing now and again!
I agree with Vanessa!!!
I'm 6' 2'; and skinny, he's 5' 8'; and stocky - you work it out...
Having different draws and cupboards for both of you, or seeing as you are the same sex just throw it all in together and share it?
Assuming of course you are both relatively the same height and weight.A question about long term same sex couples.?
uh.. my cloths are mine.. and hers are hers? same with a straight couple..A question about long term same sex couples.?
Just like any family we have our own drawers and closet space, our own shoes, boots, slippers, tooth brushes, combs, etc.
We are about the same height and weight, but we have different taste's in cloths like anyone. We do dress differently, even our best cloths are not quite the same, so we know who's is who's, except maybe for socks and underwear, but then we have our own laundry bags and do our laundry separately when it comes to whites, but our darks as they are not the same are done together.
At times we may borrow the others cloths, but only because we know each others hygiene and look after each other, even the odd time borrowing under wear or socks . . . again we know each others hygiene and we wear our socks and undergarments only once then in the laundry they go. Same as t-shirts and shirts.
We each have our own drawers and wardrobes, and tend not to share clothes as a rule, mainly because our taste in clothes is different. He is extremely fashion conscious, and tends to go for the scruffy casual look, and I could never get away with it, or feel comfortable dressed that way. He pulls it off very well though.
I think that if couples started sharing clothes too much, they would start looking very alike, which would be weird. Everyone needs their own identity, especially from their own partner!
Having said all that, we have been known to borrow formal shirts / ties / belts etc from each other in an emergency. But that's as far as it goes. Sharing underwear might be a fantasy, but some fantasies were never meant to be lived out ;-)
Me and my partner are both the same height and weight and yes we do share the same clothes at times but my lover does not like my taste in clothes though ( im a skateboarder and i dress the part ) and he is allot older then i am so he wears diffrent types of clothes i would never wear..The only thing that is really off limits to him is some of my more expensive shoes and thats it really...
It doesn't matter if I'm dating a guy or a girl. My clothes are mine, their clothes are theirs. Of course if my girl asked to borrow something of mine I'd probably let her, but that doesn't mean we're just gonna throw all out clothes in the same drawer. Can you imagine how chaotic finding an outfit of your own would be in the morning?
lol, we share clothes now. we're about the same size, she's a bit taller though, so my jeans are short on her and her's are long on me, but i don't mind, and she doen'st either cause she steals my shirts more than anything cause she has a lot more clothes than i do. ^_^ but we don't live together or anything. when we do we might share. i dunno. never really thought about it. her boobs are bigger, so i can't wear some of her nicer tops cause they're noticeably stretched out on me, i have tiny boobs compared to her. lmao.
Gwenneth and I each had a wardrobe and a cupboard. We were nearly the same height. Gwen 6' 2', Myself. 6' or close enough. Similar builds so we could borrow if necessary. She had some lovely clothes but after her death I just could not wear them, just take them out and hold them.
Rose P.
Some clothes we share, some we don't. My partner has quite a wacky taste in clothes vs my conservative! Things like underwear and socks - nope never share, I love him, but not that much! Besides if I wear his really nice clothes I always get told off for stretching the cut of the cloth! Do you think he's trying to tell me something?
we have different draws and cuboards for everything. i do pinch jackets to keep warm. mens jackets are so much bigger and warmer to wear.
dunno, but im way too tall for the guy i want to share clothes with, and i think same as any married couple you share everything else.
Which cloths? Washcloths? ';Feminine hygiene'; cloths? You have different draws - like one of you draws flowers the other one draws people?
Different drawers but it doesn't matter if they borrow anything.
It's just nice to be individual!
If he wore the same size, I would so borrow his clothes.
I love wearing stuff just once!
The guy I'm dating I already borrow his boxers to sleep
@Waggy: You just gave me a b0ner!
The same as you would sharing a house with anyone else! Have different wardrobes and stuff; borrow clothes if you want. Its not that complicated!
Our clothes are our own. We have different tastes and styles; and no way would I ever share socks or underwear with anyone.
I stand with Vanessa. Keep your draws in your own draws and I'll do the same.
I think, we would share drawers but probably not clothes. But there would be no harm in sharing now and again!
I agree with Vanessa!!!
I'm 6' 2'; and skinny, he's 5' 8'; and stocky - you work it out...
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